If you are a victim of bullying, then I’m sure that on many occasions, you have wondered why bullies try to turn your friends and everyone else against you. Here’s an in-depth explanation:
In his book, “The Art of Seduction”, Robert Greene said it best when he quoted, “Few are drawn to the person, whom others avoid or neglect; people gather around those who have already attracted interest.”
It’s human nature to want to be around someone who seems to be desired by others and to avoid lone wolves. All through history, people have had a tendency to assume that those who are loners are also unwanted or defected somehow. Bullies consciously know this, so they stop at nothing to turn everyone against you…friends, teachers, principals, bosses, and sometimes yes…ever family members.
Bullies do this not only to make you look unappealing to others, but also as a means to garner support for the lies and rumors they have spread about the victim…for validation of their words and make them more convincing, while making the victim look bad. They also do this to discredit the victim in case he/she tries to report the attacks and call the bullies into account. It’s just another way for bullies to slyly cover their own behinds and lessen the chances of being exposed. As long as the victim looks like the enemy, then others will look no further than that victim.
If this is something that you’re dealing with now, know that this is only part of the illusion that bullies create to build their case against you and to silence you. It’s nothing more than a magic trick and it doesn’t mean that you are what they say you are. You are NOT how bullies make you look!
You are awesome in your own right and there will come a day when you will have genuine and loving friends, who love you only for being you. You are worth fighting for and you are worth living for! Don’t give up on yourself!
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So we’ll said I am experiencing the same things problems issues and trouble also trying turn my partner away from me WHY ?
I’m so sorry people are treating you so badly, Ronald. Know that they are the ones who have the issues. Not you. They must be jealous of your relationship. Otherwise they wouldn’t bother trying to turn your partner against you. It just goes to show that theyvare miserable people and they want you to be miserable too. Don’t give them the satisfaction. Stay strong. And remember. You have something they want or they wouldn’t be trying to hurt you so badly. Know that you are enough and you matter. They may turn others against you. Just don’t let them turn you against you. Sending you lots of love and light! 🤗🤗🤗
Thank you 🙏 😃 BE HAPPY BE SAFE AMD ENJOY YOUR LIFE NEVER SURRENDER YOUR LIFE TO BULLIES WE ARE THE GOOD PPL I DONT CONDEMN INNOCENT LIVES BEING LOST DUE TO BULLIES I BELIEVE IN HELPING SAVING LIVES STAMDI G BY THE LAWS TO PROTECT INNOCENT LIVES AND MAKING SAFER COMMUNITIES AND A SAFER COUNTRY FOR PPL TO ENJOY THEIR LIVES I WRITE THIS BOLD TO TELL ANY BULLIES WE WILL NOT TOLERATE BULLYING OF ANY SORT SAD FOR THE VICTIMS AND THERE LOVED ONES LEFT BEHIND TO HAVE TO LIVE WITH LOSS OF A LOVED ONE OR FRIEND ❤️🙏🇬🇧🇺🇸👮♀️🙏😃 NEVER BE SILENCED
You’re most welcome, Ronald! And I agree with you on everything you said here.