Many times, in my adult life, I’ve been accused of being “picky”- too picky. And my response was always, “Damn right!”
Yes. I’m picky- picky about my food, my pay, my clothes, and, most of all, who I let into my circle of friends. I have my standards, and I don’t apologize for it.
Understand that being picky about certain things is a must. Otherwise, you sell yourself short.
Being picky is just a derogatory term for having standards. It’s setting boundaries. It’s letting others know what you will and will not accept. Most of all, it’s showing that you value yourself and that you know that you’re worthy of better things than the crap life loves to drop into your lap.
Being picky is something to be admired, not scorned.
I want you to know that when people put you down for being picky, it only means they aren’t benefiting from it, and the only way they would is if you were to drop your standards. So, understand that when others accuse you of being picky, they’re only saying it to make you feel guilty.
Allow no one to intimidate or guilt you into dropping your standards. Stay true to yourself!
With knowledge comes empowerment!
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Totally agree with you! I find I am becoming very picky too, over what I will and not allow, in my life. It’s the only way forward for me to feel comfortable and I won’t apologize for it anymore. Good thing I have a very understanding husband…
That’s a great thing, Stella! And having an understanding husband is such a blessing! 💖🌺🌻
I’m the same…because I have taste!! My father hated my fussiness…he used to say I was as “fussy as woman.” He tried, and failed, to make a man out of me. He just made me a damaged man.
I’m sorry to hear the treatment he put you through, Jim! I’m so glad you’re taking the initiative to become stronger and to be true to yourself! Keep up the awesome work! 😊😊😊
I haven’t seen him in 13 years. It was impossible to be around him anymore
I can’t say that I blame you!
thanks, my family hates me
My heart breaks for you, Jim! 💔
it’s nothing new…I have no friends, no family, no partner, no job, no home…I don’t feel too bad for any of that…but it’s a hard way to live
Omgoodness, I can’t imagine how hard that is, Jim! Keep writing and speaking out.
Thank you for clearing this up😊💕
You’re very welcome, Ruby! 💖🌹🌷
I totally agree! Life is too short to be okay with things that don’t make you happy, being picky is good!!!
Thank you so much! And you’re right, life is WAY too short! 💖🌺💪
I so agree! If we don’t know what we want, how will be get it?!👏👏👏👏👏 Nice Cherie! 💖
Exactly! Thank you so much, Cindy! 💖🌹💐🌻🌺
Indeed and you said it right 💖💖🙌🙌🌻
Oh yes ma’am. There ain’t a darn thing wrong with being picky. 😉 As you so eloquently stated girlfriend, “Allow no one to intimidate or guilt you into dropping your standards. Stay true to yourself!” 🤗💖🥰 Now THAT is another one of your mic-dropping moments kiddo!!! 🎤🎤🎤
Aww! Thank you so much, honey! 🥰😍🥰😍
You are absolutely welcome. Thanks for always gracing us with your words of wisdom my dear!!! 😊🦋🌞💐🤗
My pleasure, dahhh-ling! 🥰😍🥰😍
Why does your name sound so familiar to me? Were we in contact at my old site, Timeless Classics?
Gosh, I don’t know Ana! 🤔 We could have been. I’ve been on WP for quite a while now. LOL 😊 I’ve lost contact with so many people who have either renamed or deactivated their account. It’s possible. 😍
Yeah, and then there are the mysterious “unsubscribes” we never asked for! 🥴
Honey, don’t you know it! Mysterious indeed! 😲😛😏
Very mysterious! I’ve had that happen to me too and it’s annoying! 💯💯💯
I’m picky too lol 😆😅😂
I hear you, Jessica! It pays to be, sweetie! 💞💞💞