Any time a target gets tired of the abuse and calls a bully’s bluff. The bully will more than likely justify their behavior to others. Here is a list of the most famous statements you’re likely to hear, from most popular to least.
1. “She’s crazy.” or “She’s unstable.”
2. “He’s just mad because I called him out!”
3. “She’s so fake.”
4. “She’s too sensitive.” “She’s overreacting.”
5. “He’s a crybaby.”
6. “She doesn’t want to admit when she’s wrong.”
7. “I was just trying to help you.”
8. “She’s just jealous of me because of…”
Always listen to your gut feeling- it will always tell you the truth. If something doesn’t feel good, your gut will tell you. Remember that the sensations of the body never lie. You should expect bullies to act this way when you finally assert yourself; it only goes to show what kinds of people they are- and who you should avoid.
With knowledge comes empowerment!
Learning the things about bullies.
I am tallying the statements.
Almost similar!
Thank you Cherie!😊🙏❤️
You’re most welcome, Arun. 😊
😊🙏
true ☹️☹️
“Gas lighting”
Yeah.
I know about that.
Great post Cherie
(Love the poster!–Love Ingrid Bergman)
Thank you so much, Lance! 😊🤗
mean mood
so was the dude
son that he is
bring milk a gallon
by the way
yeah ok now
Nice poem. 😊
Cry baby has been used on me once or twice.. its was like a cardinal sin to cry in our family and could mark you out for more punishment which come to think of it is pretty bloody brutal.
Omgoodness! They wouldn’t even let you cry and have normal emotions and that’s evil! I’m sorry they did that to you. I’ve heard many bullies tell targets to “shut up crying before I give you something to cry about.” It was terrible. There were times I had to go somewhere by myself to cry when I was being bullied and I hope you had somewhere private to go. Know that they were the baddies, not you. You were never responsible for their atrocious behavior and you had a right to cry and get the pressure off your chest. 💖💖💖
Yes it did start to change a little in later years. to be honest Cherie where could I go, so I buried the tears, its what addicts do I am just about to write a post on this.. . but yes so cruel to do this to a child or anyone really.
I’m sending you lots of hugs, sweetie! 🤗🤗🤗 Let me know when the post is up, I can’t wait to read it! 💖
https://emergingfromthedarknight.wordpress.com/2022/04/17/its-not-a-crime-to-be-sensitive/
I just read it and I love it! I also left a reply. Blessings to you, sweetie! 💖💐🌺🌻😍🥰
Thank you so much Cherie..
You’re most welcome, Deborah. 😊 💖