“If you’re a target of bullying, they don’t bully you because there’s anything wrong with you. They don’t bully you because of anything you’ve done wrong. No. They bully you because they perceive you to be the person who has the least power and, therefore, the least likely to be able to defend yourself. That’s why they bully you. It’s not about who’s defective and needs to be fixed. It’s not about who’s evil and needs to be punished. It’s about who has the least power. Always.”
True but bullies always make out that it is something wrong with you.
Bullies will do that. But it’s up to us to see through their bs.
Definitely
I used to chase/fish for sharks as a hobby (Galveston)
Blood in the water.
Yep
I get it.
Right! And if a person has insecurity issues, that’s blood in the water for bullies as bullies are like sharks.
Bullies are bullies ..
You’re right. And bullies target the one they perceive can’t fight back.
Beautifully penned. I wasn’t aware of this
Thank you so much, Raksha. This means a lot. 💖💐