When I see a bully from my past, I get that nauseating feeling in the pit of my stomach even now. I don’t even want the person around me. I have no ill will toward the person, and I don’t hate them. I only wish for the person to stay away.
Understand that these body sensations never lie. They are there to warn you of impending danger, and you should always listen to them. That gut feeling is there to protect you. There are other names for the gut feelings we get. We also call it our instinct, a hunch, or sixth sense.
There’s a good reason God gave this instinct to us. It serves as an internal alarm to warn us when something is wrong. Animals have these instincts, too, as do babies and children.
Instincts in animals are a lot keener than in humans because they must survive in the wild. And the instincts of babies and children are much keener than in adults. The reason for this is that the world hasn’t yet tainted children and conditioned them to tone down that sixth sense.
To stay safe, we must reteach ourselves to obey what our senses try to tell us.
Your heart will deceive you, and so will your mind. But your gut is always honest. Listen to it.
That is exactly how I feel when I see my school bullies. I have no hard feelings but I want myself to stay away from them.
My heart goes out to you, Ayesha. Only someone who’s been there would have that yucky feeling. Thank you so much for your thoughts. And know that’s you’re so much better than what they told you. ❤
Thank you Cherie ❤
My pleasure.