Bullies are fake. They have to be to instill fear in those around them. And they resent anyone content with themselves and comfortable in their own skin.
1. Most bullies are highly insecure– more insecure than others; people who are themselves are usually more charming, seductive and graceful. An authentic person will captivate others without trying. Because of his openness and fluidity, he draws people to him like a magnet. And bullies are jealous of anyone who enjoys good relations with others.
Understand that not only are bullies insecure, but they’re also vain. Authentic people outshine them without even trying and just their presence alone makes the bullies appear less alluring and charismatic to others.
Avoid these vanity bullies like the plague because they will find a way to destroy you if you stay around them. These people will only force you to suppress your natural charm and goodness, so you won’t look like you’re better than them.
2. People who are themselves don’t have to make any effort because they are their natural selves. On the other hand, being fake requires a lot of work. There are also a lot of worries that go with it- worries that you might slip up and get your lies twisted, that you may accidentally expose yourself through your actions, and that your true personality will somehow seep through.
Bullies resent the fact that authentic people don’t have to work and worry as they do.
But no matter what these bullies may throw at you, never be afraid to be yourself. Never hide anything about you. Because if you do, you’ll only lose a bit of yourself each time you put on an act until you lose yourself entirely.
To be fake, you to work too hard. I’m too lazy for that. And so is anyone who prefers to be themselves.
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I am being bullied by people at my place of residence Dennis Miller. Julie Burns Jim Rymer etc. They are mentally out of control and they are crazy. They like to cause trouble to a person me Debra Nass We all live in Parkview Apts. Oconto falls. Help me. Debra Nass
Debra, my heart goes out to you, sweetie. But I’m going to need a little more information- Are these bullies neighbors of yours? Is the property manager involved in bullying you. Are they bullying your family too (Spouse, kids, anyone who lives in the household with you)?
Oh never mind the neighbours question.
But is the property manager involved somehow and do you know why they’re bully’s you?