Bullies thrive on power, dominance, and fear. They love positions of power and will often opt for jobs that give them either authority over people or prestige.
Here are some of the jobs bullies select.
1.Politician. Remember that well-seasoned bullies are the biggest and most convincing schmoozers, liars, and convincers on the face of the Earth. They have a way of steamrolling their ways to the top. And why not? They’ve been politicking since they were in diapers and often have connections in high places who give them boosts up the ladder. Should it be any wonder we have politicians who schmoozed constituents to get into office, then do nothing once they get there? This is not to say that all politicians are bullies, but all bullies seem to be politicians.
2. Law Enforcement Officer. First, let me start by saying that most police officers are great people who have my utmost respect, especially in today’s climate. They do a difficult and thankless job. They put their lives on the line every day to keep us all safe and to prevent criminals from harming law-abiding citizens and their families.
However, like any profession, law enforcement also has its bad apples. And when people who were bullies in school take these jobs, they often become those bad apples in their departments- the very people who put shame on the badge. These bullies will abuse their power at will.
And it isn’t fair to the good cops who sincerely want to make a positive difference and make our streets safer. The good cops are the ones who suffer when this happens.
3. Correctional Officer. Even correctional officers have authority over inmates- just not all inmates because there are some inmates who flat out run penitentiaries. It happens. Bullies pick this job because in prisons, they get free rain to do to “select” inmates, usually, the inmates at the bottom of the social order, whatever they want, and what are those inmates going to do about it? It’s their word against the bully CO’s and whose word do you think the warden will take?
Even worse, bully CO’s also abuse the good and decent CO’s who are competent and perform their jobs well. My last husband worked as a Corporal in a penal institution before he died. And he told me a few horror stories. I also, have friends who work in the TDOC system and they too tell me that it isn’t the inmates they must watch out for, it’s their coworkers.
4. Supervisors and Managers. Again, bullies love positions of power and once they take those positions, they usually have carte blanche to abuse who they select to bully. I can’t count the stories I hear of workplace bullying and of bully bosses who get drunk on power and destroy others’ careers and lives.
It seems that bullies can’t live without having power over another.
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Interesting one.
Thank you so much.
mine pleasure dear
This was very good and in my experience, you could add school principals (head teachers in the UK) to that list. I would be very interested in you doing a post as to which jobs targets would take. It was once said to me that I became a teacher as a way of getting back at school bullies. I never thought that.
Great idea for a future blog, Michael. I most definitely will work on that. 😊
This is sort of a tangent comment: I’ve been trying to understand astrology to determine if the stars might actually be ‘God’s clock’ as Melissa believes… One interesting thing that I noticed is that politics and religion are in the same ‘astrological house’ while spirituality is in another… I bring this up because of your #1 and am wondering if religious leaders can also be included there.
Wow! I never heard that about the stars. But it makes sense.
Bullies can’t really think out side box which means they are really limited due to the way they operate.
You got that right. 💯 It’s the reason why they’re not creative a d often steal others ideas and take credit for them.
Yeah! That’s why they don’t last in jobs…
Amen on that! 🎯
Really interesting! I had not thought about that before 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you, Luisa. I didn’t learn this until I read a magazine article a the began researching bullies and bullying through Tim Field’s “Bullying Times” and BullyOnline.org back in the ’90s. But it made perfect sense! So many of my questions were answered.
Thank you for your kind answer 🙏
You’re most welcome. 😊
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Work for a politician. Biggest narcissist I’ve ever encountered.
I don’t doubt it, Keith. 💯💯💯
Oh. He’s bad.
Oh, I believe it! Most politicians are the worst narcissists! And power-hungry as hell. 😨
good observations!
Thank you so much! 😊
I enjoyed reading this and
I appreciate your hard work!. I know You have an impressive grip on this topic!.
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Thank you so much, Asif! You don’t know how much this means. 🙂