Message to Bullied Girls: Being a Decent Girl of Morals May Not Reap Rewards Now, But It Will Later.

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I knew how you feel. You see girls at school getting fawned over and sucked up to by hormone-crazy boys, while you get overlooked and laughed at. And the funny thing is that most of these girls may or may not look as good as you but still, these guys see something in these girls. And believe me, I know the sense of bewilderment you must be feeling.

But let me tell you what they see in those girls.

They see potential scores- easy marks – cheap thrills! To put it bluntly- they have plans to bed these girls. A honeypot is a honeypot and erect penises have no eyes. So, do you really want a guy to see you as that?

It could be that the reason they laugh at you and avoid you is that they sense that if they were to ask you out, or to put out, you’ll only turn them down flat. They’re great big chickens!

Understand that when people know they can’t have something, they show disdain for and dump all over it to look like they’re the ones in control.

Thirty years ago, guys in my age group passed me over too. However, I can tell you that many of the same guys only used many of my female classmates one time, then tossed them away like a dirty diaper. Yuck! Who wants that!

And many of these jerks were under the delusion that they were doing these girls a favor by even considering them for a date and that the girls were automatically obligated to put out to them.

If the girl said no, the boy would kick her get out of his vehicle and drive away, leaving her stranded on the side of the road at ten or eleven on a Saturday night. This happened to a great many girls at Oakley High.

So, was I unlucky? I don’t think so. I only see it as evidence that I dodged a bullet!

Know that if you’re one of those girls who are overlooked, it may be a blessing in disguise! Do you really want some creep who’s only out to get in your pants?

I didn’t think so.

Hold on to your virtues. Be confident in who you are and be proud that you have morals and aren’t like the other girls who get kissed up to. Because the favor they get from these guys always comes with a huge price tag!

I’ll have more on this in the next post.

23 thoughts on “Message to Bullied Girls: Being a Decent Girl of Morals May Not Reap Rewards Now, But It Will Later.”

  1. Petrina says:
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    Great post! 😊
    Spot on. Yes, those kinds of sleazy ones will overlook decent girls, no matter how beautiful they are. They want easy targets for bragging rights and to fill out their scoreboard. They are looking for girls who will stroke their enormous, fragile egos. It is a powerplay. The overlooked girl is SO BLESSED in this regard, even if she doesn’t know it at the time.

  2. 80smetalman says:
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    I saw the same thing when I was in high school. The girls who didn’t ‘put out’ were shunned. In most cases, the result was the girls who did ended up as young mothers while those who didn’t more than likely found true love and/or had successful careers.

  4. Pajama Party 39 says:
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    You know the funny thing about that is many girls start out not even wanting to be that way but feel like they have to which is wrong thinking. And in fairness to some guys, the shy, respectable ones who would treat a girl well often are overlooked.

    • cheriewhite says:
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      You’re absolutely right. The girls feel like they have to sell their self-worth and respect just to fit in and it IS wrong think. And you’re also right about the shy and respectful guys- They really do get overlooked because too many girls are too busy chasing “the bad boy.” However, the bad boy will only bring these girls heartache and a lot of unnecessary drama.

  7. Kym Gordon Moore says:
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    Cherie my dear, you not only dodged the bullet, but you also held on to your dignity, your morals, and became confident as a result of those lessons. You also grew wiser by recognizing the delusion of the popular ones being thrown out like a “dirty diaper” (LMAO) when they tried to make you feel left out and insecure. 🤔

    Some of the scenarios you mentioned I witnessed, but I wouldn’t trade places for those individuals at all. I have seen how some of them turned out when I went back to my 30-year high school reunion. I was speechless! 😲 🤫 😱

    • cheriewhite says:
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      Thank you so much, girl! 😊❤ And yessss! Karma does end up biting them in the ass! 😂🤣 And I love the mention of your reunion and how they turned out. However, I won’t go to my 30th reunion because too many of them are PO’ed at me for writing a.d publishing my books. I’ve gotten plenty of threats from some of them over FB messenger and I would probably get hurt if I showed up there. 🙂

      • Kym Gordon Moore says:
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        Excuse my English, but F@#% 🤬 them if it is “truthfully” offensive. They have a problem with looking in the mirror, why then they can deal with it. It’s their sin and besides, from what I have read, you didn’t call any names. That shows that the truth hurts! 👍 😵 But don’t you dare back down from speaking your truth girlfriend. 🤫

        AND, if they are that STUPID for posting something on FB, don’t they know that you can report those threats, not to FB but to the authorities, like law enforcement and the FBI? It seems like some folks are still immature based on their actions! SMH 😤 Your message is too important to far too many people who need to be encouraged by your experience. No longer will you be subjected to intimidation! 🤜🤛

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