If others perceive you as weak, you can use that to your advantage! Allow me to explain further.
My classmates thought that I was weak, and, at times, I used it to elicit sympathy from others. I knew that if I could appear too vulnerable, and tempt my bullies to become “too aggressive,” I would gain sympathy from others and paint my bullies as the bunch of sadistic psychos they truly were.
It was in these cases, although few, that my bullies only created a martyr and got called out by a teacher or another member of school staff for the vicious snakes they were.
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Therefore, there are times you must expose your bullies by appearing “too weak.”
For example, if you have a disease or disability, you can use it to get sympathy and make your bullies look barbaric. And who wouldn’t be outraged to hear of or see someone picking on a person who’s too sick to fight back?
Here’s another example. If you’re a female with a tiny build and you’re a target of bullying, you can milk it for all it’s worth if you know how to. You’ll have allies and protectors coming out of the woodwork and in droves.
Or, if you’re a typically charismatic guy and a peacemaker who doesn’t like to fight, you will also have people come to help you out.
Even naivete can be used as a weapon if you know how to use it properly.
Use what are perceived to be your weaknesses as weapons! Once you learn to do this, you’ve won the battle!
With knowledge comes empowerment!
You series on bullying is getting more interesting. Using one’s weakness as a weapon is correct.
Thank you so much, Saji. I learned the hard way.
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Ah, I love this Cherie. 💗 It’s like the hunted becoming the hunter. 😲 Oh what a great strategy. Use your weakness as a weapon! Love it!!! 🧨
Thank you so much, Kym. There were times I did that. Sometimes it worked like a charm it depended on who I was dealing with. 😊
Booyah! I like the way you work and think girlfriend! You work it girl. 😘🦋😎
Hahahaha! Sometimes you have to be a little tricky and sneaky when you’re being bullied by everyone. 😁😁😁
That’s the idea girl. Bully the bully!!! 😘
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From the not so distant past:
https://www.paulcraigroberts.org/2009/05/12/how-things-change-out-from-under-us/print/
Wow! You’re so right! Times have changed dramatically! The Author and his bully, Fate surely would have gone to jail today. It’s so sad. The Left has really killed the right to defend yourself!
From the not so distant past….
https://www.lewrockwell.com/2009/04/paul-craig-roberts/how-things-change-out-from-under-us/
Great advice Cherie, I only wish I had it 50 years earlier.