The biggest excuse for hatred and bullying today is in the name of social causes. They hide their hatred of certain individuals and groups behind political activism and the accomplishment of social goals, which have nothing to do with love for your fellow man. As we’ve learned in the last year, most political policies only serve to destroy civilization.
Bullying and hatred only see laws, rules and norms as ways to oppress. I’m not saying that certain corrupt individuals won’t pervert them for their own ends, because they do. However, laws, rules and norms are initially put in place for a good reason, to preserve peace and safety for everyone. The dark side of human nature dictates that without laws and rules, our society would be a cesspool of chaos, anarchy, and suffering.
Bullies and haters will use words like “equality” and the past sins of targeted groups and individuals as an excuse to cause harm and destruction to those who have been labeled, fairly or unfairly. They will hide their hatred behind a veneer of a desire to do the right thing and use shame, disgust, and ridicule to bully people who may or may not have contributed to the inequality.
In this, innocent people can become objects of bullying and hatred because they are different somehow- they may be of different races, religions, or political beliefs. They may also be bullied and hated because they are poor. Maybe they smell bad, or are considered unattractive.
Many are bullied and hated because of something they have no control over- maybe they have a mental handicap, are physically weak, disabled, or disfigured. Some are hated because they don’t conform to certain standards. Maybe they were disadvantaged, got a poor education, and not as knowledgeable about things that most people already know.
Maybe they don’t dress properly, or they just do things their own way and not the way everyone else does. Difference, no matter how slight, always attracts bullying and hatred. Always! It’s sad but true! And innocent people who so happen to fall into the hated category of people end up persecuted and suffer needlessly and unfairly.
Hatred and bullying are so tricky because, like I’ve mentioned earlier, people often disguise their hatred and bullying as morality and equality. To be accepted, hatred and bullying can never be boldfaced and without moral reasoning. Bullies and haters must hide behind the facade of justice and fairness.
For example, hatred that stems from jealousy often dresses itself as a campaign of fairness. I’m not saying that all campaigns of fairness and justice stem from hate. However, many do.
The idea of spreading the wealth is one such example of class envy and hating and bullying those who have worked hard and reached financial and personal success.
In my opinion, a person that has worked hard to get his business off the ground and is successful in doing so deserves to keep his profits. Why? Because he worked hard, and he earned it. And he has the option to donate to the charities of his choice and help the poor but it’s his choice whether to.
Don’t get me wrong, I’m charitable and I like to give to the less fortunate, but only because I want to! Not because some politician or activist demands that I give a portion of my earnings. And I can guarantee that if anyone dares to demand that I give them something, the only thing they will get from me is a proverbial middle finger and an “up yours.”
People give because they want to, not because they’re ordered to. That, my friends, is human nature.
Movements like these send the wrong message- that’s it’s somehow wrong for someone else to have something “that I don’t have and haven’t found a way to get” even though they worked their ass off to get what they have and where they are.
Another example is hatred and the desire to take revenge, which often masquerades as movements and campaigns against injustice or for justice.
Again, I’m not saying that all of these campaigns are about hate and vengeance. Martin Luther King, in his marches for freedom, surely did NOT advocate hatred, bullying, or taking revenge. His campaigns were for true unity and the good of mankind.
However, it’s too easy to use these campaigns to justify hatred and bullying, just as extremist groups like Antifa and others do. This is wrong. There’s no justification for hatred and bullying. Never! When groups such as these say the word “justice,” what they really mean is “revenge.” It’s how they justify burning, looting, violence, and murder.
Bullies and haters will also pervert the word compassion to hide hatred and bullying and will also recruit people to join them in their hatred of another person or group. This is how they trick people into believing that they’re being compassionate of their pain when, all they’re really doing is promoting hatred and hostility toward a target or targets.
Remember that MLK encouraged forgiveness and peaceful protesting. He encouraged unity. Sadly, groups like Antifa, BAMN, and The Red Guard encourage only hatred and any voice that encourages forgiveness or peace will be seen as opposition and quickly silenced. These groups will make it seem unfeeling and to lack empathy for the oppressed.
But lies disguised as compassion are of the most evil variety because they cause the most destruction and blind it’s followers to their hate, hostility, and viciousness. It’s also how innocent people are demonized and brutalized. Because, when an innocent person is labelled as bad and evil, they then become targets for hatred, violence, even murder!
It’s actually a clever and convincing disguise, but think about this: Satan never comes before you in a red suit with horns and a pointy tail, no. He always comes as an angel of light or as your heart’s desire- something you’ve always dreamed of. And trust me, he’s damn good at it! And why not? He’s the master of lies and fake disguises!
With knowledge comes empowerment!
Well put.
Thank you so much. ☺
You’re very welcome
As someone racially ambiguous (very fair skin, super dark hair), people often have trouble placing me. But the “woke,” as soon as they know I’m Latino, start treating me in infantalized ways or like I’m an exotic specimen, and it is always super uncomfortable.
I would say most of social justice and wokeness is just people trying to call attention to themselves (“Look how good I am! Look how virtuous I am!”) and not really about reaching out and understanding others and accepting all people. And ironically, they end up being the most racist towards me, telling me what I should be offended about in my own culture, and oftentimes assuming stereotypes of me. Very, very uncomfortable.
Absolutely, Jarilissima. That’s exactly what they do. It’s all virtue signaling and it’s sickening because you know it’s fake.
Ver well stated! Completely agree! <3
Thank you so much. 🙂❤
Great post Cherie! Religious groups do the same thing in trying to get money. If you don’t give your money to their church, you are going to hell. Then there is the “My religion is right and yours is wrong” mentality. I think people who have to bash other faiths have no true testimony of their own. Being bullied to believe is the worst thing possible in religion.
Wow! I never thought of that so deeply but you’re absolutely right, Michael. Most religions are pretty self-serving and exclusive. I’ve even been to a few churches who were like that. But I only went once because any house of faith that is anything like you described isn’t true.
Yes, and it works that way on both ends of the political spectrum – for every BAMN there is a QANON, for every Red Guard there is a KKK, For every Antifa there is a Proud Boy group… I lump them all in the same bin. There is so much posturing and virtue signaling that it has become a social mine field!
Absolutely. We have right wing fanatics too. If only everyone could be in that happy middle and let common sense rule them instead of craziness.
Amen!!!! 😀❤
Great post Cherie, and very relevant for today’s world. 🙏🏻
Thank you, Amber. ❤🙏
It takes courage to write about this topic. Thank you for doing so in a thoughtful and nuanced way. I especially like the line “hatred that stems from jealousy often dresses itself as a campaign of fairness.”
Thank you so much for your kind words, Michael! They mean a lot. 😊 I see through a lot of these SJ campaigns and more and more people are seeing through them as time goes on. 💖