‘Want to know what happens when you stop caring what people think of you? Here are the 9 life-changes you’ll notice.
When you care to much, you hold on too tightly to the outcomes instead of letting things happen naturally and in their own time. However, caring too much can make you a slave to other people’s approval and permissions.
This is no way to live.
In this post you will learn the positives that flow into your life when you stop caring. Period.
Once you learn about all these advantages, you will be more willing to just relax and go with the flow.
This post is all about the amazing things that happen when you stop caring about other’s opinions and approval so that you can experience more freedom than you ever thought possible.
So, what happens when you stop caring about other peoples opinions of you?
1. You stop apologizing for being you.
Why? Because you stop allowing others to make you feel guilty for just being you. Instead of hiding your flaws, you begin to embrace them.
Moreover, Instead of judging yourself, you start loving and accepting yourself- all aspects, the good and the not-so-good.
Even better you begin living up to your own standards instead of someone else’s. In that, you start living life on your terms.
2. You set yourself free from the chains of fear and anxiety.
It’s like a weight that you take off your shoulders because you’re no longer a slave to others’ opinions and approval. Moreover, you stop walking on eggshells and hiding your natural humanness.
Also, you stop feeling like you aren’t good enough and comparing yourself to others. When you stop concerning yourself with the opinions of others, you no longer allow anyone else to dictate what you should say, do, think, or feel.
3. What happens when you stop caring?
You permit yourself to make mistakes.
Therefore, you free yourself. You realize that everyone makes errors whether or not some admit it. Even better, you begin learning from those mistakes and seeing them as life lessons, instead of defects
Moreover, you finally accept that you’re not and never will be perfect. Who is?
4. You gather the courage to be disliked.
Why? Because you realize that like and dislike are subjective, never personal. You accept that not everyone is going to like you and are not only okay with it, but you embrace it!
Moreover, you understand that a person who doesn’t have people who dislike them isn’t doing something right in one area or another. You also know that chances are that they aren’t embracing their true, authentic self.
5. You follow your heart.
You freely do the things you love to do. Therefore, you sing, dance, speak your piece, and yes! Even act a little weird. In all this, You take back control of your life and find freedom you’ve never known.
The day you stop caring what people think is the day you get your life back!
6. What happens when you stop caring?
Your bullies slowly disappear.
Your bullies will notice the change in you. They’ll attack you, as usual, but suddenly, their pettiness doesn’t affect you like it once did. In other words, your bullies will notice that you no longer give them the reaction they’re looking for.
At first, they may try harder to get it. However, they’ll soon get the hint that you’re just bored with their childishness. And, when enough time has passed, one by one, your bullies will begin to disappear from your life.
Why? Because you’re no fun anymore and now, the bullies must search for an easier target to take your place.
7. You feel great about yourself.
In other words, you will begin to feel beautiful, smart, and, best of all, equal.
8. Positive things, events and circumstances begin coming your way.
Moreover, they will do it magically and seemingly without effort. You will begin attracting the right people into your life.
Instead of drawing in users, abusers and losers who are out to get something from you, you will draw in genuine people who were loving, caring, uplifting, and inspiring.
Existing relationships will drastically improve. An abundance of opportunities and blessings will flow into your life.
Also, you’ll start seeing wins and successes and life will become very rewarding and fulfilling. As a result, this will only encourage you to stretch your imagination, take more risks, and try new things.
9. What Are other things that you notice when you stop caring?
You look back and wonder why you even cared what your bullies and others thought.
Why? Because you’ll finally know that they never meant jack to you and couldn’t do anything for you. Moreover, you’ll realize that they’re not your family or friends. Also, you will think to yourself:
- These creeps aren’t my family or friends.
- They don’t pay my bills nor sign my paycheck every week.
- These jerks don’t hold my life in their hands.
- And they most certainly aren’t people I care anything about.
10. You wonder why you wasted so much time and energy on people who were never worth your consideration.
Why? Because you’ll realize that most of those people were never even worth your consideration.
Moreover, you’ll realize that the only opinions that matter are those of my God, your family, spouse and closest and most trusted friends.
You’ll also realize that the only things that matter are your faith in God, your dreams, morals, and taking care of the people you love. In addition, you’ll place value on your ability to be the best you that you can be, and on your desire to extend kindness and help those who need you.
Anyone or anything outside of that will be irrelevant.’
I understand that it’s difficult to love yourself when it seems no one else does. However, you must commit an act of rebellion against those people. And how you do that is to continue to love and respect yourself.
Realize that the best kind of love is the love you give yourself. Why? Because, without self-love, you won’t be able to love others properly and healthfully.
Therefore, you must decide that you’re going to love yourself no matter how others feel about you. However, it may not happen overnight.
This will be the beginning of a long journey. You may be about to take on an exceedingly difficult task. And that will be to reprogram your mindset.
In other words,, you’ll need to purge all the negative stuff people have told you for many years. And it won’t be easy by any stretch.
What happens when you stop caring? Life just gets better!
It will take reversing and undoing many years of abusive programming. Also, it will require a lot of grunt work.
Moreover, when you rise to this challenge, there will be times when others will fight against you. But, why would they do that?
Because they won’t like the differences they see in you. Understand that they’ll be threatened by the positive changes you’ll implement for yourself.
Also, your mind will fight against you as well. But, stick with it because that tiny spark within you will always tell you that you deserve better.
You’ll continue to vomit out all the garbage others have made you believe about yourself. And it’ll be difficult to cleanse yourself of the negative thoughts and self-beliefs that have kept you shackled for so long.
It will be a long fight, I won’t kid you. However, it’ll be so worth it in the end! You be be happy, confident, and comfortable in your own skin. In other words, you will experience a freedom you’ve never known!
So, continue to put in the work to break the chains that bind you.
If you’re a victim of bullying and haven’t gotten there yet. I want you to know that loving yourself is the hardest lesson you’ll ever learn.
11. What happens when you stop caring?
You turn your pain into power.
However, sometimes, you have to be torn apart to put yourself back together again. You have to be naïve to become wise.
Also, you must be weakened by bullying for several years before you can finally realize your own strength. And you have to be cheapened by others before realizing your worth.
And lastly, you must feel hate from others before you can love yourself fully and completely. There will be people who will drum so much poison into your brain and make you feel worthless. However, you have a choice whether to allow them to do that to you.
Realize that there are people who want you to hate yourself as much as they hate you. But don’t give them the satisfaction! Hold on to your self-love no matter how people bully and abuse you.
Here’s how you do it:
- Celebrate your successes even if you don’t feel up to it.
- Make a list of your positive qualities.
- Make positive affirmations.
- Reward yourself.
- Talk kindly to yourself.
- Catch every negative thought and replace it with a positive thought.
- Do things you enjoy most.
- Stay away from toxic people if at all possible.
- Surround yourself with positive people.
- Don’t put pressure on yourself to meet standards that are unattainable.
- Place no value on the opinions of people who aren’t worthy of your time and energy.
- BE YOURSELF!
If you practice these twelve things every day, I promise you that you will see change in your overall outlook. It won’t be easy, and it won’t happen fast. However, as mentioned earlier, it will all be worth it in the end. I guarantee it!
This post is all about what happens when you stop caring what others think and the positive changes that happen when you do.
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