‘Want to know all the amazing things that happen in your life when you start seeing your worth? Here are all the life changes you need to know.
Once you realize your worth, magical things begin to happen in your life. Amazing things you never thought possible!
In this post, you will learn all the awesome benefits that come when you start seeing your worth.
After you learn all these advantages, you will begin your journey to discovering just how much you’re loved and that you have a good purpose for being here.
This post is all about the amazing benefits you’ll see when you start seeing your worth so that you’ll be inclined to do the inner work and value yourself as a human being.
When You Start Seeing Your Worth
So, what happens when you start seeing your worth?
1. You refuse to have anything more to do with people who don’t.
Sadly, when you’ve suffered bullying, your self-esteem has taken a beating. Therefore, it’s too easy to feel you must cling to people who could care less about you.
However, once you begin seeing your worth, you begin weeding out all those who use and abuse you. You refuse to say around people who only tolerate you. This is because you value your time and some people aren’t worth one second of it!
Therefore, you refuse to make time for those who talk down to you or use you.
By kicking out the losers, you make room for better people to come into your life. In short, you start placing less value on the quantity of friends and focus more on quality of friends.
Therefore, you finally attract friendships that are fulfilling.
2. You stop settling for less than what you know you deserve.
In other words, you raise your standards. Not only are you selective of the people who come into your life. You begin applying for better jobs, and buying products of higher quality.
Moreover and most importantly, you command better service and better treatment. Therefore, you attract healthier people.
You accept nothing less than the best because you know you’re worth it!
3. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You’re no longer afraid to be alone.
You come to a place where you’d rather fly solo than put up with shoddy treatment. Moreover, you actually like being alone and prioritize your “me time” to relax and recharge.
Here’s another thing. You don’t toil over being single. You’re just as happy without a mate as you would be with one. Therefore, you’re willing enjoy your singleness until the right person comes along.
And when you get to where you enjoy your solitude, that’s when you know you’ve grown!
4. You begin loving yourself enough to know when it’s time to walk away from toxic people.
In other words, you’re no longer afraid to let go of fake friends and posers. And this goes even if a few of them happen to be those you love. And when you do let them go, you do it without concern over the outcome.
Moreover, you drop these people without guilt. Why? Because you know that it pays to be nit-picky of those you allow into your life.
5. You no longer give a damn what others think or say of you.
In other words, you’re not the least bit concerned with opinions. In fact, you actually embrace any dislike a few people have for you. Why? Because those people will no longer matter to you.
When you don’t care what other people think, you’re not afraid to put yourself and your needs first. Why? Because you realize that you can’t pour from an empty cup.
Therefore, you don’t feel guilty because you know that you must take care of yourself before you can take care of others.
6. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You’re no longer afraid to set boundaries.
This means that you have the guts to say “no” to things you don’t want. And when you say it, you mean it.
You’re also not afraid to stand up to people who cross the line with you. In fact, you’re willing to put on your bitch-face when the situation calls for it.
You don’t owe anyone a damn thing. You realize that respect is a two-way street. Therefore, you live by the mantra that others aren’t entitled to your respect. They must earn it!
7. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You give yourself permission to make mistakes.
Why? Because you know that mistakes are your best teachers. Therefore, you’re willing to learn from them. You also realize that no one is perfect. And that’s it’s okay.
8. You’re comfortable in your own skin.
In other words, you embrace the good, the bad, and downright ugly parts of yourself. You continue to feel beautiful whether you’re dressed in an evening gown or in your tee shirt, jeans and sneakers.
9. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You’re willing to take risks.
Why? Because you’re not afraid to fail. You know that if you do, you can always try and try again. Also, you know that if you try for long enough, you’ll eventually succeed.
So, you don’t quit. You keep going.
10. You look on the bright side.
In other words, you try to see the positive side to bad things that may happen. You may fail at doing this from time to time. However, you, at least search for the good side.
Therefore, your confidence doesn’t take such a big hit when things go wrong.
11. Your confidence goes through the roof.
In other words, you don’t fear rejection nor ridicule. Why? Because you realize that you’re just as good as the next person.
Again, you’re also not worried about who does or does not like you. Why? Because you like yourself, even if a few others don’t.
Therefore, you look forward to meeting new people.
12. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You’re a go-Getter.
In other words, if there’s something you want, you work hard for it. And you don’t stop until you get it.
If there are any roadblocks, you look for a detour. If you have setbacks, you keep working hard and power your way through it.
13. You work on your goals and follow your dreams.
If you have a dream, you aren’t afraid to strive for it, no matter how long it takes. Though haters and naysayers may try to discourage you, you pay them no mind.
Why? Because you see through the haters. You realize that their negative words only come from a place of jealousy. Moreover, you know that they’re only speaking from their own worldview.
Instead, you keep working toward your goals and dreams until you reach them.
14. You have nothing to prove to others.
You realize that the only person you must prove anything to is yourself. Therefore, you no longer feel the need to try to be someone you aren’t. Why? Because you know that your value is there even if others can’t see it.
you don’t waste time begging for approval. Moreover, you refuse to hang on to people who aren’t really your friends.
Therefore, you don’t waste your precious energy trying to impress those who aren’t worthy of you.
15. When You Start Seeing Your Worth:
You realize your potential.
You know who you are and what you’re made of. In other words, you are aware of your potential and the heights you can rise to.
You believe in yourself even if others don’t. And that’s what makes you so badass!
16. You’re not afraid to be yourself.
Therefore, you’re not afraid to be silly sometimes. In fact, you’re outgoing and others notice it.
Being fake takes too much work and you’re much too lazy to be fake. Therefore, you’re authentically you and it shows.
Moreover, you understand that fake personalities only draw in fake friends. you also know that to weed out toxic people requires you to be yourself.
In that, you keep the creeps at bay and make it a point to live life to the fullest.
17. When you start seeing your worth:
You give Yourself the best gift of all – Freedom!
Knowing your worth means self-acceptance. In other words, it means being okay with yourself, warts and all! Moreover, it’s giving yourself permission to feel those raw emotions any time some creep pisses you off.
Seeing your worth means freedom! The freedom to be human! To be you! And to celebrate yourself!
Therefore, get to know your worth and your life will change for the better!
This post is all about the life-changing things that begin to happen in your life when you start seeing your worth. Put simpler, it’s about the benefits you’ll reap once you do.
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Well meowed, Ms. Cherie! I shall share this on my blog.
Purrseidon
Awww, thank you, Jeanne. 💖 And I’m gonna keep on meowing, sweetie. 💯
True Talk
Thank you so much. 🤗
Always welcome
Absolutely loved and appreciate your post!
Thank you so much. 💖
Now is the time!
Absolutely, Barefoot. If not now, when?
Fantastic post! I don’t know if you intended it but this is good advice for everyone for the new year. Well done, Cherie!
Thank you so much, Michael! And yes, I felt this was a good time to post on this subject. Have a wonderful day! 🙂
I think one of the things we all need to come to grips with is, I don’t care how kind, sweet, intelligent, handsome/pretty, athletic, talented, skilled, etc person you are, there is always going to be a group of people who don’t like you. It may be jealousy or pettiness or whatever but some people want to dispute how awesome you are and some people love gossip or will even make up things to trash others. It can happen to literally any person. It is one of the reasons for example why a lot of celebrities get off of Social Media altogether. It is like that in the work place and other areas as well. For example, and I think I have used this one before but if 80 percent of people who have read your blogs or books, Cherie, say you are a great writer than quite obviously you are and MOST think that. However, there are those 20 percent who are going to claim otherwise. I realize some of it is subjective but a lot of them just jealousy, pettiness, or hate to see someone successful. You can write a masterpiece and someone still is going to find fault because they decided they hated it before they read a page. What is needed is more people to build up and stand up for people that are being unfairly attacked.
You’re absolutely right, Bradley. This is why I can’t stress enough to never let other people define who you are. And I’m all for standing up for the bullied and persecuted. However, at the same time, I want to teach them to stand up for themselves because most people won’t stand up for the bullied. If anything, they take the side of the bullies. It’s the wrong thing to do, yes. However, the reality is that most people, in general, are cowards. Moreover, they’re looking for social status. And many bullies, unfortunately, have high social status. Therefore, it’s imperative that we not only stand up for them, but we also teach them how to stand up for themselves.