‘Want to know the difference in cancel culture vs calling out? Here are the detailed distinctions you need to know about.
Cancel Culture is just the newest and fancier form of bullying and cyber-bullying. People often say that it was intended for the purpose of shaming people in power for wrongdoing. And maybe it was intended that way.
However, bullies have only found ways to abuse it, misuse it, and weaponize it against their victims. Moreover, it’s mostly the people in power who use it to silence those who are less powerful.
Therefore, in this post, you will learn the differences of cancel culture vs calling out so that you can more easily distinguish between the two and call out cancel culture when you see it happening.
Once you learn all about these distinctions, you will be more knowledgeable of them and better prepared to defend yourself against the scourge of cancel culture.
This post is all about the differences of cancel culture vs calling out so that you can protect yourself if bullies try to cancel you or get you cancelled.
Cancel Culture vs calling out
Cancel culture never provides the outcomes it was originally thought to produce. No. What it does is gives cyber-bullies a green light to bully anyone they deem unworthy of living a good life. Moreover, it only breeds cyber-bullies who are more dangerous. It even breeds cyber-criminals!
Cancel culture has negatively effected the lives of many celebrities. However, they were already rich and set for life. Understand that stars already have nest eggs of tens of millions of dollars to fall back on, if cyberbullies ever cancel them.
Therefore, cancel culture won’t affect the rich and famous like it would normal, everyday people with jobs, bills, and families to feed.
Commoners are who suffer the most from cancel culture. And cyber-bullies love to drag them through the mud because they don’t have a financial cushion to rest on. Therefore, cyber-bullies will come after them first.
So, what are the differences?
1. Cancel Culture means to harm and destroy the life of it’s target. Calling out only calls out the wrongdoing of the person.
Cancel culture involves spreading lies, incendiary comments, destructive criticism, public shaming, and threats of physical violence and death. Moreover, cyber-bullies go to extreme lengths to destroy people’s lives and they don’t stop.
On the other hand, calling out only calls out the person for something they did wrong. Calling out only attempts to get the offender to apologize and make things right. And once the transgressor has, people usually leave the person alone.
2. Cancel Culture vs Calling Out:
Cancel culture involves doxxing and publishing private information about it’s target. Calling someone out doesn’t.
Nowadays, if you fall victim to cancel culture, many cyber-bullies will dox you. They will find out where you live. Also, they will discover where you work or go to school.
But wait! It gets worse!
Doxxers will also find out who your friends and family are. Therefore, these kinds of cyber-bullies are the most dangerous because they get access to your information and do evil things with it.
Many victims of cancel culture cyber-bullying have had people call their places of employment and get them fired. Also, cyber-bullies have gotten their targets kicked out of school.
Some have even shown at their prey’s houses, broken in, and beaten the person within an inch of their lives. Furthermore, cyberbullies have even murdered their victims or driven them to suicide.
Many cancel culture bullies have even gone after the target’s families and friends either when they couldn’t find the target, or after they were done with the target.
This kind of cyber-bullying is especially terrifying because it puts people and their loved ones in grave danger!
3. Cancel Culture vs Calling OUt:
Cancel culture is personal and comes from pure, raw hatred. Not so with calling out.
It’s so sad that there are so many people nowadays with this much vileness and hate eating away at their souls. I’ve known of a few people who fell victim to cancel culture and the comments they receive were beyond vile!
- “You have such a punchable face,”
- “People like you need to hurry up and die off,”
- “I want to break into your house and rape your wife and daughter,”
- “You don’t belong on our planet,”
And the worst comment I’ve ever seen was directed toward a CEO of a small company:
- “We won’t stop at killing you, we’ll kill your family too and destroy your entire bloodline!”
I could actually feel the intense hatred in each comment as I read them. And the people that post this kind of stuff? You can tell that they’re in such a bad place- a horrible place!
This is a place I never want to be in, and I kid you not! Some of the vitriol on that platform will leave you speechless!
Nowadays, no one is safe.
Before the internet, if you stalked someone and threatened to kill them, you went to jail. The law charged you with terrorist threatening. Moreover, back then, if you slandered or libeled someone without any evidence to back up your claims, you got your pants sued off.
Don’t believe that, with the robust cyber-security agencies that we have today, the law can’t arrest these types of bullies. Moreover, don’t think that the law hasn’t caught up with technology and can’t find the criminals who are destroying the lives of innocent people.
They can ping IP addresses. Even if the cyber-bully is hiding behind a VPN, proxy or cloaking their IP address, cyber-security teams can still find ways to track them.
And what should really blow your mind is that you don’t see many pedophiles and child sex traffickers being cancelled. This should be pretty odd (and suspicious) to you. But I’ll save that for a future post.
4. Cancel Culture vs Calling OUt:
Cancel culture happens for the most trivial things. Calling out doesn’t.
In other words, cancel culture cyberbullies publicly shame people for the most absurd, ludicrous, and ridiculous reasons. All it takes is for a person to say something, anything that someone else takes the wrong way.
Moreover, the wrong person can see an old high school photograph of a guy who dressed in drag at a Halloween party back in the 70’s. Back then, many men dressed as women on Halloween, and no one thought anything of it.
It was just a Halloween costume and some kids having fun. Yet people cancel the guy over it 40 years later. It’s ridiculous!
For example, three years ago, people attacked me online for “walking on the wrong side of the street” during my power walk. Walking with traffic has always seemed like a death wish to me. I’ve always walked toward traffic just in case a distracted driver comes along.
And if a driver is going to veer off the road toward me, I want to see them coming so I can get the hell out of the way and avoid them hitting me.
Granted, I never got cancelled for it, but I was told that I was the most despicable person in the world- for walking toward traffic instead of with it. Sadly, I’ve heard of many other people getting cancelled over silly stuff like that.
Cyberbullies cancel people over something foolish they may have said while drunk at a kegger thirty years ago. Or because they worked at a company or for a person that is now on the cancel culture hit list twenty year ago, ten years ago, or five years ago?
5. Cancel Culture vs Calling Out:
the former searches for things to cancel people over. the latter doesn’t need to search for anything.
It seems that cancel culture cyber-bullies must search, and search far and wide for something. Moreover they will look for anything, even the tiniest little social infraction to get the pleasure of cancelling someone.
And if they can’t find anything, they will invent something.
It only shows that the cyber-bullies who do these kinds of things have entirely too much time on their hands. Cancel culture does nothing to make people better or teach them a lesson. What it does is embolden cyber-bullies to commit more dangerous cyber crimes.
It further empowers these bullies to completely obliterate the lives of innocent people. People who are just trying to make a living, take care of their families, and live in peace!
And these targets mind their own business, go about their lives, and just want to be left alone.
WE should make cancel culture a serious crime.
You may disagree with me and you have every right to do so. But our leaders should outlaw cancel culture. Moreover, they should make it a Class A Felony. The law should give no one carte blanche to screw around with someone else’s livelihood and personal life.
They may dislike and even hate them. They may not like what the person says. Also, they may not agree with how they do things, the way they live their lives, nor who they associate with. None of that matters.
Therefore, if that person isn’t committing a crime, their livelihoods and personal life is off limits!
5. Cancel culture seeks to destroy. Calling out only wants to teach a lesson.
These cyber-bullies go to great lengths to destroy their targets. Moreover, they may say that they want to “teach them a thing or two.”
However, they’re not trying to teach any lessons here. They’re only using that as an excuse to deliberately ruin someone’s life.
6. Cancel Culture vs Calling out:
The Former is all about power. The Latter is about justice.
They only do it for the satisfaction of having the power to do so. Therefore, understand that this is how they get the rush of power they so crave.
Because they certainly can’t get it any other way. Understand that these people are life-losers. They’re zeroes trying to look like heroes. And the sad part of it is, they know they’re zeroes.
They can’t achieve self-actualization, power, respect, nor notoriety through creativity and hard work. Why? Because they’ve got no skills nor redeemable qualities to survive on merit.
Engaging in cyber-bullying and cancel culture is the only way these people can achieve these things. Moreover, they will attain them even if it means destroying many lives and breaking laws to do so.
And the power that cancel culture gives these bullies is dangerous and should strike terror in any law-abiding citizen. Those who only want to work, come home, enjoy the love of our families, deserve to live their lives in peace.
They do not deserve to have their lives ruined and others accuse them of blackface just because they dressed like Michael Jackson on Halloween back in 1983.
7. C.C. infringes on the rights of everyone. C.O. only holds the wrongdoer accountable.
Cancel culture is bad not only because it can destroy a person’s life, but it negatively effects everyone else as well. How?
It does so by robbing everyone of their rights to decide and choose for themselves. For example, let’s talk about book burning and banning.
Disclaimer: And no. I’m not talking about books with pornography that are intended for children. Children absolutely have NO business seeing pornography! So, these cases don’t qualify as book banning! And, ooooo! I just know I’m going to get a ton of backlash for this. Bring it on!
When people burn or ban books and their authors, not only are they violating the rights of the authors, but they’re also robbing others of the right to order them, read them, and choose for themselves whether they like them.
If I find a book in a bookstore and like the title, cover, and the synopsis on the back jacket, then I’m going to read it. You may not like the book or its author but it doesn’t mean that someone else won’t.
Therefore, you must realize that cancel culture only infringes on everyone’s rights to choose what they want to read, watch, buy, or consume. Who is anyone else to try and choose for us? Who do they think they are?
Not only am I speaking for myself, but also for every single person that values their right to decide and to choose.
It’s high time that more people rise up and push back against this senseless, moronic scourge. It’s also high time we push back against anyone who participates in it and condones it. The sooner we begin protesting this epidemic, the sooner we restore our freedoms of choice and self-determination.
This post was all about the differences in cancel culture vs calling out so that you can better distinguish between the two.
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Thanks, Cherie… I learn new things from you with every post.
I had the bullies after me say they were “calling me out” for my behaviour but I now see that was not true. The behaviour shows me they are trying to “cancel” me out, especially with the doxxing they have done this past year. The Police here in Canada would do nothing about it though, I tried when it came out last year.
I have learned in the past 4 years that since I moved, these past tenants have reached out to many of my social media contacts, trying to spread negative info about me and my hubby, and trying to gain new info they could use. I am thankful their behaviour does nothing, and my social media people ignored them.
This past year, I got to celebrate the deletion of most of the domains they created and they are now down to the one in my name, where they are doxxing me.
Thankfully, my research has shown me hosting companies are implementing “doxxing” policies to prevent this from showing up on their nameservers, which is why that domain is on a free speech host in Panama. They too should add doxxing to their policies…
I live in hope!!
You’re very welcome, Stella. And your bullies are majorly obsessed with you! Otherwise they would have gone on with their lives. But knowing that they’re still trying to hunt you down after 4 years leads me to believe they just don’t have a life. Again, my heart goes out to you. These people need stalking charges brought against them.
Quite right Cherie! Cancel Culture is a scourge which needs to be stopped. On a light hearted note, I kind of hoped that the Fundamentalists fanatical Christian sect would call for my first book, “Rock and Roll Children,” to be banned because it ‘glorifies’ heavy metal and ‘demonizes’ those religious nuts. You know the ones who used to show up at concerts and tell us all we were going to hell for seeing the concert.
Thank you so much, Michael. It really IS a scourge. However, I don’t think they’ll try to ban your book. Most true Christians believe in free will. 😊