Here’s to not only my bullies from the past, but all bullies in the world today:
If only you had a clue. If only you knew what sniveling cowards you were and still are. If only you realized that some of us are smarter than you think and see right through your veils.
If only you could see what we see behind your pathetic attempts to look bigger, better, and brighter than what you really are. Because if you saw what we see when we look at you, you’d want to crawl in a hole somewhere and hide.
If only you knew that in your feeble attempts to instill fear in and control others through your yelling, screaming, and cursing tirades; or your passive-aggressive dirty looks, scowls, and eye-rolls, you don’t look all-powerful. You only look desperate.
If only you could see that your relentless jockeying for power and control only gives you the appearance of weakness and desperation, not strength and ambition.
Your attacks and threats toward anyone smaller or weaker only expose your own fear and timidity. We know you’d never risk going toe to toe with someone of your equal without being buried where you’d fall. And the sad truth is that you know it too.
You hide from the truth of your inadequacies behind empathetic, ethical, and good-hearted people like us as a baby would hide behind the skirt of its mother from the boogeyman.
Your pitiful attempts to use others as a shield to conceal your flaws and imperfections make you look exactly like what you are- fakes, frauds, and imposters.
Your incessant fakery and false bravado only mean that you’re not to be taken seriously and only evidences your pathetic self-loathing.
Just knowing that you must work so hard and expend so much energy to hide your true selves and keep others down only makes us scoff at you and laugh among ourselves behind your backs because we don’t have to work as you do.
We are quite comfortable at being ourselves, and we can save our energy for use to create our own happiness and success. It’s so sad that you can’t.
Bullies, you truly are pitiful because your hatred for people like us burns you up inside, eats away at your souls, and blocks you from any peace and happiness you might otherwise attain.
So, even as you unleash your vitriol on us, we don’t hate you. You’re simply not worth the energy it takes to hate.
We only pity you– feel sorry for you because we know that at your very core- you’re so miserable with your own existence. You’re hopeless to achieve growth and become wiser and better people. And you’re helpless to better your lives.
We’ve already figured out that behind your made-up faces and fancy clothes and hairdos, there’s no substance. There’s no authenticity or anything solid. The only thing behind your weak and shaky facades is only hot air- nothingness- dead space!
You paint yourselves as most valuable, yet you bring no value to the table, only fake humanness, euphemisms, and double-speak. You may glitter and sparkle, but not all that glitters is gold. It’s only fool’s gold.
You tear people down, undermine their creativity, and take credit for their ideas. But only because you aren’t smart enough to be original. I’ll bet you’ve never had an original thought in your entire lives!
You surround yourselves with people who are just like you- coattail hitchhikers who are unable to think for themselves, who’ll jump through a thousand hoops to make “the right people” like and favor them, and who are nothing but followers, drones, lackeys, and patsies. In a nutshell, you’re only losers disguised as winners.
You talk so much garbage, but instead of making us feel bad, you only give us free entertainment- because we know now that talk is cheap- and it’s all you can do.
But you’re right about one thing. We are different from you- absolutely we are. We’re nothing like any of you. And you know what else? We’re proud of it.
People like us don’t need lackeys and followers. We can improvise, adapt to, and overcome anything. And the best part is, we have you to thank for that.
You taught us how to be inventive. We’re creative because we had to be. You taught us how to get around any roadblock or barrier placed in our paths. How? You might ask? You gave us plenty of practice!
You gave us grit– the strength to weather the storms in life, to stay the course, and to gather the wherewithal to live a better and more rewarding life.
You made us more determined to have what we want out of life. In trying to break us down, you only set some of us on our paths to success – and without meaning to!
And now, while you stay in your comfort zones and live mediocre lives, we’re willing to endure a little discomfort to expand our horizons and live extraordinary lives. And it’s finally paying off.
While you followed the latest fads and trends, we were developing those of the future.
In a nutshell, you may have brought us down, but you couldn’t keep us down. In the end, some of us rose higher than any of you ever could’ve imagined we would. So, here’s another reason for you to hate us.
And the fun part is, we welcome, even embrace your hatred of us.
And we haven’t even begun yet, we’re only getting started. There’s a lot more to come.
Again. you may have brought us down, but you couldn’t keep us there. In the end, some of us rose higher than any of you ever could’ve imagined we would. And the best part is, we’re still rising!
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I feel so empowered after reading this. Indeed, bullies may have brought us down, but they couldn’t keep us down. We always rise from the ashes. Thank you so much for this!
You’re very welcome, girl! We are Phoenixes, honey! 🙏💖💐🌹
I had to smile and nod in agreement!
Thank you, Valerie. I love how you subtly turned the tables on your bullies. 😁😁😁
As a registered nurse, I’ve worked in inpatient psychiatric units for almost 16 years. I discovered that the biggest, baddest tough guys – the ones who like to bully and intimidate others – are usually the mama’s boys who crumble when other people refuse to put up with their crap.
Absolutely, Dawn! Deep down, bullies are big cowards!
I was bullied too. I can’t go back and change the past but my hope is someone reads your blog and sticks up for themselves. Keep writing girl. Love it.
Thank you so much, Angela! That’s my hope too! <3
Love this Cherie: You’re simply not worth the energy it takes to hate. 🎤 🥱 😴 Enough said! 😜
Thank you so much, sweetie! Bless you! 🙏❤💐🌹😊
Right back at ya girlfriend. Always! 🌻 ✨💐🤩 🙏🏼
Thank you so much ❤😊
I think this is the best I’ve seen till till now. You’re amazing!
Thank you so much. This really means a lot. 😊