Do you know that you will eventually escape bullying and that it only gets better after you do? Here is the encouragement you need to keep hope alive.
Your situation may seem hopeless now. But trust me when I tell you that it won’t always be this way. Things will change, and sooner than you think.
In this post, you will learn that the bullying you suffer now will eventually end and that it only gets better from there.
Once you learn this incredible truth, you will be encouraged to keep pushing, keep holding on, and never give up.
This post is here to remind you that the bullying you suffer will end. Then, it only gets better from there. Keep going and you’ll soon be glad you did.
It Only Gets Better
If you are a target of bullying, you must hold on. Although intense- even unbearable, your pain will only be temporary. I don’t say this lightly because I know what you must be thinking.
“But she doesn’t understand! Nobody understands! Nobody else is going through it! How can she possibly understand the daily hell I endure at work (or at school)?”
I do understand. Once upon a time, I was stuck in the same spot that you are in today. You want to smile, laugh, sing, and dance, only for others to beat it out of you! So strong is the desire to believe in yourself and see your value. Yet others repeatedly and deliberately tear you down!
The night always turns darkest before the dawn.
All you want is to speak and have your voice heard! But others only silence you with threats of physical harm and further degradation. The threat of suspension or the loss of your job and livelihood hangs over your head.
Also, the danger of having opportunities for future employment ruined looms over you. Or you face the possibility of a school suspension or expulsion.
Survivors know firsthand what it feels like. You want to move forward, but bullies keep holding you back.
You want to escape the torment. But you’re stuck in a toxic environment with toxic people, against your will!
I know the bewilderment when people curse your very existence. It’s terrifying when bullies bombard you with death threats.
They force you to sacrifice your needs and wants for theirs. It sucks to see others getting gratification and entertainment at your expense.
When people dehumanize you, it can be life-altering. Many others, just like you, have also felt the pain of being verbally bullied. Many even get slapped, kicked, and beaten.
It’s no fun when people scorn, disregard, and trample you underfoot. You don’t know how much I hurt for you.
It Only Gets Better:
Know that SOME PEOPLE UNDERSTAND and They care.
We know what it feels like. It’s like someone running you over with a truck. The driver then stops, shifts into reverse, and backs over you again.
Then, he shifts back into drive and mows over you yet again. He then stops the truck, opens the door, sticks his head out, and asks, “Are you dead yet?”
And if you show any signs of life- any whimper or movement, it only encourages the driver to close the door, shift into reverse again, and repeat. Therefore, he continues doing so until you finally succumb to the trauma and die.
Yes. This is how bullying feels. Bullies want to destroy you, and it seems that they won’t relent until they succeed at it.
But there is Hope!
You will not have to deal with these people forever. Karma does repay- in spades! If you keep believing in yourself, you will become successful and happy.
Moreover, your bullies won’t even matter to you when you reach success.
You are beautiful, intelligent, and awesome! And one day, you will cross paths with people who will see your worth and love you- unconditionally- just for being YOU!
You will find a teacher, school, supervisor, or employer who will see the value you bring. And they will see you as the asset you truly are!
Don’t give up. You are worth fighting for!
People may bully you now. They may taunt you, call you ugly names, physically beat you, humiliate you, and turn others against you.
Those around you may make you feel sad, alone, unattractive, and rejected in the present. But they won’t be in your life forever. Bullies eventually drift out of it.
It Only Gets Better:
But rest assured, Your Life won’t always be this way.
Take it from someone who has been there. I had no friends in middle school or high school until I finally transferred to my new high school during my senior year.
Once I left *Oakley High School and began attending *Roseburg High School, that’s when life began. And I took back my power and started rebuilding every part of me that my bullies from the old school had torn down.
Leaving Oakley was the free feeling you get after walking away from a toxic and abusive boyfriend. And the same will happen for you, too.
You won’t linger in that poisonous environment forever. Life gets better.
When you escape, your confidence will blossom.
There will come a day when you will be happy and have so much to be thankful for. You’ll have a family of your own.
You will enjoy your job and feel comfortable in your skin. Also, you will accomplish more than you ever thought possible.
You will grow to love yourself, imperfections and all.
You won’t worry about what others think of you, and you will permit yourself to be you. Moreover, you will have the courage to say no when you don’t want to get involved in or do something that doesn’t feel right to you.
These will be freedoms that you will enjoy and never give up. Not without one hell of a fight!
It Only Gets Better:
Don’t Give Up! There’s Life after Bullying.
I want you to know that the bullying you’re subjected to now will not last. There’s a beautiful life waiting for you once it’s over.
So, whatever you do, don’t give up! Stay your course, and keep fighting.
Hold on to your faith and your dignity with everything you have. Because it may not seem like it now, but the best is yet to come, and the right people will find you.
You will be surrounded by family and friends who love and accept you for who you are, not only for what you can do for them. And you will have friends you never have to explain anything to.
They will love your flaws and quirks, along with your good qualities. You’ll feel so secure with being yourself that you can make fun of yourself and have a good time doing it.
You’ll be relaxed, worry-free, and best of all, safe! You will find your circle of friends, and once you meet them, they will have been worth the wait.
You’re worth fighting and living for. Don’t give up now. Stick around! It only gets better! Much better!
Your bullies only bully you because you have a light that blinds them. Therefore, they are trying like the devil to dim that light. Don’t let them do it.
You may feel dead now. But someday, you will overcome the abuse, and it will breathe life back into you. Don’t give up now. There’s always hope. Keep looking to the future.
Heed these words. You will have life. You will have love. And you will look back on this and be amazed that you not only survived, but you overcame!
The Purpose of this post was to assure you that it only gets better and that there is life after bullying so that you will be inspired to keep pushing forward when times get the toughest. Don’t give up! Choose Life!
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