‘Want to know about catty women and effective ways you can deal with their bullying? Here are all the informative details you need to know about.
These types of women are everywhere! You have mean girls at school, cliquey women at work, even crotchety older women in senior communities. Whatever the life-stage, female on female bullying is all too common.
It’s sad that we have so many women who are jealous of other women. They seek to tear another woman down if she dares to be too pretty, too smart, too rich, too talented, or too anything positive.
Therefore, in this post, you will learn all about catty women and how to intelligently deal with their bullying.
Once you learn about all this game-changing information, you will be able to effectively shut these bitches down and take back your power.
This post is all about catty women and how you can protect yourself against them.
Catty Women
Here’s a scenario you’re probably familiar with. You have a clique of queen bees and mean girls at school or work. Moreover, they’ll see another woman outside their little group who’s happy with her life.
This lady is confident and strong. She knows who she is and what she wants. The lady may be successful at her job or have a huge bank account. Also, she may be talented, smart, have a good family life, or gasp! All of the above.
Do you think that they’ll be happy for a fellow female who managed to defy the odds? Will these women want to learn from her? And, will they see her as a role model?
Do you think they will look up to her? Most females may act like they support other women. However, do they really?
No chance. They will only hate her and wish for her downfall. Moreover, these vixens will want to tear her to pieces. They will plot against her and try to sabotage whatever success she has. It’s both sad and pathetic!
Why Many Women Resort to Catty Behavior
First, let’s find out why so many woman act so darned catty.
Catty Women:
They’re insecure with themselves.
Understand that the reason these women are so catty is because they’re highly insecure in themselves. Subconsciously, they see themselves as inferior to any woman who’s got her shit together. Therefore, they’ll do everything they possibly can to pull her down to their level.
Also, if a catty woman has a husband with a roving eye, look out if you’re the woman in his sights! Because she won’t lay into her hubby with the wandering eyes. No. She will come after you! And with a vengeance!
Catty women are mostly the passive-aggressive types. Therefore, if you happen to find yourself in their line of fire, you’ll sense it.
You’ll feel their eyes bore into you like a needle. You’ll pick up the sickening vibrations these girls put off. Also, you’ll feel the negative energy they exude grip you and try to squeeze the life out of you.
These vicious females will almost seem demonic- as if they’re possessed with an evil spirit. Therefore, if you become the target of catty women, BEWARE!
You must understand that most catty women are, in fact, women with narcissism. And there’s nothing more evil than a female with NPD.
They’re Spiteful.
These shrews will try to get information from you. Moreover, they’ll pump your friends, associates, even your family members for information about you.
They’ll warn everyone who will listen not to associate with you. Also, they’re notorious for trying to damage your good relationships.
These women will sabotage your job prospects, invade your privacy and snoop through your office and sometimes even your belongings. They do this to find anything they can use against you.
Some may even stalk you to find out where you live. Moreover, don’t put it past them to find out who your family members are. Understand that these women see you as an adversary- someone they must compete with.
Catty Women:
Jealousy and competition.
Understand that your success causes them to compare themselves to you. These women may also question their own achievements and overall value as women. Self-comparison is such a confidence-killer!
They hate you because they think you have it better than them. You can hear the venom in their voices and sense the poison in their minds.
You see clearly the ignorance in their attitudes. Also, you’ll observe their huffy impatience and haughty demeanor.
If catty women ever sink their claws into you, they’ll never let go. You’re the enemy- the usurper of their perceived girl-code. Therefore, they’ll have a laser focus on you.
Women and girls can be worse bullies than men and boys
How do you spot these ferocious females?
Spotting them is easy. All you have to do is notice their snottiness. Their attitudes are a dead giveaway.
These girls strut around the school, workplace, or community like they’re the belles of the ball. They have funky attitudes and usually walk around with their noses in the air.
They have their upper lips raised in contempt. Their eyes blaze under those fake eyelashes and narrowed eyebrows. Overall, they act snooty and snotty.
And the woman I mentioned earlier? The one with the ogling husband? Should it be any wonder the guy has a roving eye?
You must realize that these women are miserable human beings. Moreover, they suck the oxygen out of every room they walk into.
You should pity and dismiss them. Never hate them because, deep down, they already hate themselves. Only they’ll never, in this lifetime, admit it.
Therefore, avoid these bitches and have nothing more to do with them. Do it not only for your sanity, but your overall safety. The further away you get from these hussies, the better.
Catty women don’t know their worth.
One fellow blogger, Petrina, made the perfect point when she quoted in her comment:
“…If a woman knows her worth, she won’t be like this. If a woman does not make an idol out of men, she won’t see other women as such a threat. Much of women’s cattiness revolves around the fact that they feel threatened that their idols (men) are going to find other women attractive and prefer them. These types of insecure women are falsely validated by men’s attention….”
Petrina’s words really drive the point home and I thank her for her comment!
Cattiness in Women Comes from One Thing- Fear and Insecurity!
What makes these damsels so dirty and trifling? Let’s sum the answers up in one word:
Fear!
Bless their pea-picking hearts! If these poor things had a modicum of self-esteem, they wouldn’t have such funky attitudes. Moreover, they would have the confidence to just relax.
This is why it’s so important to know your worth as a woman. If you do, you won’t want to make trouble for other females who rival you.
You won’t compare yourself to other women. Moreover, you won’t hate on women who may or may not have easier lives than you.
However, sad to say, you may find yourself in the crosshairs of jealous catty women who are jealous of your life.
Catty women are miserable souls.
Think about this. If these women were genuinely happy with their lives, they wouldn’t be so obsessively jealous of yours. Catty women are insanely jealous of any woman who has her life in order and has everything going for her.
Women who are catty are usually women who are hungry for attention, especially male attention. Moreover, they’re the kind of girls you see humiliating themselves by chasing and throwing themselves at men in bars or at parties.
Understand that their snooty ways alone reveal so much about them. If they had an ounce of self-awareness, they wouldn’t be so oblivious to it.
Sadly, these toxic broads believe that their behavior makes them look powerful and goddess-like. Also, they think that walking around with their noses in the air and upper lip snarled like a dog is cute.
In fact, many of them think that this behavior attracts men.
These Women are Thirsty!
And yes, there are people, especially guys, who are attracted to that kind of behavior in girls. It’s true that every day, you see many men fall all over themselves to get close to these bitchy gals.
Sadly, the world is full of simps.
However, you must realize that these guys have no self-esteem nor self-respect. Therefore, the man-eaters they crawl behind will only chew them up and spit them out!
Yes, each of these fawning boys look like and put on the facade of the alpha male. However, under the surface, they’re only beta males who are insecure.
Any man who puts up with a catty woman has serious doubts about his masculinity.
In other words, if these guys were cars, they would be shiny, flashy muscle-cars that look sharp and fast on the outside. However, they’d would be total wrecks under their hoods. They wouldn’t make it out of the driveway before sputtering out and breaking down.
On the other hand, true alpha men would never be such gluttons for punishment. They wouldn’t bow down to these shrews, kiss their behinds, and become, for lack of a better term, “whipped.”
Instead, they would ditch these broads… fast!
Why? Because a guy with any common sense knows that the only power these women have is power others give them.
Catty Women vs Quality Women
Any quality woman- a woman who is worth her salt- desires a partner she can respect. She has no time for some spineless wimp she can walk on.
Also, men of quality desire a quality woman of strength they too can respect and who respects them back.
And when a catty, insecure woman has her partner, or other guys groveling at her feet as she’s walking over him, it says one of two things about her.
- She is a controlling, domineering shrew who fears a strong, secure, self-respecting partner. Therefore, she actually prefers a boy who’s a sniveling weakling she can keep under the heel of her high-heeled shoe.
- A strong, secure, and self-respecting man of quality would never in this lifetime have her nor even consider her! Ouch!
A quality woman knows there’s no need to act catty to prove anything to anyone. Therefore, that’s a woman who’ll be successful in achieving a relationship with a partner she can respect and who respects her back.
This is a girl who will never get into a relationship with a guy who’s a wimp. Before there’s love, there must first be respect!
Catty Women are Fearful Women
In contrast, catty women are fearful women. They fear strong men who have the balls to put them in their place if they ever get out of line. These girls are truly pathetic.
They’re only beta-females who, by their actions and behavior, reduce themselves to the lowest common denominator. Sadly, these women are many- they’re a dime a dozen.
However, women who are confident and have their mental stuff together are few. They’re rare. And anything that is rare is and always will be of higher value.
In fact, it’s priceless. The Law of Scarcity dictates this.
Therefore, if you are one of those rare and special women, keep doing what you’re doing. And if it seems that so many other females are working like the devil to bring you down, know that they are already beneath you.
Otherwise, they wouldn’t put in so much effort to tear you apart and bring you to their level.
Always remember that because you are rare, you hold more value than your mean girl bullies ever will. Believe that with every fiber of your being!
Here are 5 Ways to Deal with their Behavior.
- Let them run their mouths and act ignorant if they want. They’re only revealing to everyone who they are.
- Stay above them. Don’t react to their childishness.
- Know without a doubt that you’re above them because you don’t have to resort to such petty behavior.
- Act indifferent and dismissive toward these women.
- Continue to do your thing and do it confidently.
Doing these things will get to them more than anything else. More importantly, it’ll make you feel better about yourself. Therefore, rise above them and stay above them.
This post is all about catty women and why they resort to bullying other women.
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