When you are a target of bullying, loving yourself can be very difficult when it seems that the only thing you hear from others is negativity. Constantly being bombarded with ugly names, cruel taunts, and attacks over a long period of time can very easily have a cumulative and devastating effect on your self-esteem. If you aren’t careful, you too will begin to believe the cruel falsehoods that mean-spirited others tell you.
However, no matter how viciously others may treat you, you must do everything possible to hold on to self-love! Even if you have to look at yourself in the mirror every day and make positive affirmations.
“I AM an awesome person.”
“I AM beautiful.”
“I AM worthy of being loved.”
You must maintain your self-esteem and never let anyone brainwash you into thinking that you are less than.
You must love and respect yourself before anyone else can love and respect you. You must take care of yourself. You must command respect and love from others, including a few family members you love dearly, and be willing to make some tough decisions to receive that love and respect.
Sometimes, you have to walk away, knowing full well that there is always a chance that the person may never see your worth. And this means coming to a place where you no longer care even the slightest about the outcome.
However, there is a strong chance that your value will go up in that person’s eyes, and they will eventually see your worth and treat you better than you ever thought possible. It may not happen overnight. In fact, it may take up to several years, but it can happen.
If, by chance, it does not happen, realize that you did not turn your back on the person because you did not love them, but only because they did not love you enough to treat you with the love and respect that you know in your heart of hearts that you deserve.
You must love yourself, or nobody will love you. Never look outside of yourself for love and validation. Never depend on others for assurance of your value. Let love come from within your heart!
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I truly believe that self love plays an important role in our lives. Wonderful post!!
Thank you so much. 🙂
very nice post … its so important to love oneself 🙂
Thank you so much, Rudra! 🙂
Love conquers all indeed
Yes ,It is very important to love oneself..
Thank you so much. ❤
I guess if you want to love yourself…. First you need to find yourself… 🙂
You’re absolutely right, Steven. 💯
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Awesome! I’ve followed your blog and read a few of your posts. Great writing! 🙂
Thank you so much. Really motivating 🙂
You’re most welcome. 😊