Bullies don’t deserve for you to expend so much effort to prove anything to them. Why? Because they’re not worthy of your best. Only the people who truly love you, uplift you and are proud of the person you’re becoming deserve that. Only the people who have your back and are in your cheering section are worthy of the kind of work you put in.
‘You see? Bullies are the type of people who must have a target. They must have power over someone, anyone, or they end up feeling inadequate and useless (but aren’t they already?).
Bullies have an insatiable hunger for power. If they don’t have it, they feel as if they’ll go insane (Again, aren’t they anyway?)
If you’re a target of bullying and you try to prove yourself to those who could care less either way and whose only wish is to keep you down, you’ll be on an endless and futile quest. You’ll end up wasting precious time, which is time better spent focusing and working on you.
Understand that no one can prove themselves to a bully. It’s impossible because bullies only see the negative in others. They never have anything positive to credit anyone but themselves. In fact, the better, stronger, smarter, braver, and more awesome you are, the more threatened your bullies feel, and the more they attack you to tighten their grip on your life and keep you under their control and domination.
Bullies hate strength, they hate smarts, and they hate any positive quality in anyone else but them, especially if the other person’s good points surpass theirs. To a bully, control isn’t just about forcing you to do what they want, it’s about controlling your mind- your thoughts, attitudes, and preferences. It’s about controlling your life and having the power to ruin it.
It’s about having the power to break you and wear you down. Bullies get off on that power. And when you consistently bend over backward to prove yourself to them, all it does is show them that they still have power over you.
Because, if they didn’t already have it, you wouldn’t be trying so hard. In fact, you wouldn’t try at all because you wouldn’t give a crap what they thought.
Remember! You have nothing to prove to anyone other than yourself.
The more you know, the more empowered you are!
0 thoughts on “You Should Never Try to Prove Yourself to a Bully”
Nicely written! You’re correct – you can’t argue with fools! Best Wishes! Leigh
Thank you so much, Leigh! 💖 I always appreciate your thoughts. 🙂
Girl, trying to prove yourself to a bully is literally suicidal. They don’t care and it is truly a waste of time even trying to reason with them. 😖 Lead by example, but you don’t have to prove not one daggone thing to someone who deserves no explanation! 🤜🏼🤛🏼
You got that right, girl! And yasss! Some people don’t deserve an explanation from you. The only people you have to prove anything to is God and yourself. And, as Phil Robertson says, “That’s a fact, Jack!” 😀