‘Want to know all the non verbal bullying language examples bullies use? Here are all the gestures, head to toe, that you need to know and recognize when you see it.
Bullying body language is super easy to read if you know what to look for and which parts of the bully’s body to look. However, many victims of bullying and even non-victims haven’t been taught the details of non verbals.
Therefore, in this post, you will learn all the physical cues of non verbal bullying from head to toe so that you can know when you’re about to be attacked and take steps to protect yourself before it happens.
Once you learn about all these physical signs of hostility, you will be much quicker in deploying defense measures to ensure your physical and mental safety. Moreover, you will be able to mirror your bullies’ mean gestures in a way that will make them think twice about coming for you.
This post is all about non verbal bullying so that you can confidently counter it and feel better about yourself, knowing that you stood up to your bullies’ silent threats.
Non Verbal Bullying
Many bullies use body language to bully you. For example, they may give you a threatening look from across a crowded room. Maybe one of them looks at you and makes the slitting throat gesture to let you know what you can expect later.
You may ask, “Why do bullies use gestures? Why don’t they just come out and say it directly?”
The reason must seasoned bullies prefer the use of facial expressions and gestures is because they are silent and less detectable by others.
In other words, it’s just a sneakier way for them to try and intimidate you without getting caught and possibly getting into trouble.
Therefore,
Without Further delay, here are the body language cues you must watch for.
Eyes- That Creepy Piercing Glare.
The eyebrows narrow and the eyes bore into you without blinking. The head does not move. The person stares you down as if they want to attack you.
Bullies pull this number to either challenge or intimidate their you. Therefore, here’s what you do to counter them.
Return the stare. Then, keep your eyes boring into them until they look away.
Doing this tells the bully that they don’t scare you and that you’re willing to go toe to toe with them if you have to.
Do this and the bully will likely leave you alone.
Nose- The Nostril Flare.
You’ve seen the nostrils of a bull flare when the animal is about to charge a matador. It’s the same with bullies.
The nostrils flare to take in extra oxygen needed for a possible physical attack. When a bully does this, you’d better believe that he’s hostile.
Therefore, when a person’s nostrils flare at you, look out! Because it is a sign the bully is about to physically attack you. Keep your eyes peeled and be prepared to defend yourself.
Also, the bully will likely do this while staring you down. Therefore, return the glare and the nostril flare to let them know that they don’t intimidate you.
Non Verbal Bullying Examples
Jaws- The Jaw Clinch.
The bully is gritting his teeth at the target and hiding it. When this happens, you’ll notice the jaws protruding.
The bully either pulls this move to intimidate or in preparation for a fight. Again, this is a sign of a possible physical attack. Don’t ignore it. Stay vigilant.
Moreover, stare the bully directly in the eyes. But one quick note. Staring the bully in the eyes can be intimidating.
Therefore, if you can’t look them in the eyes, look them between their eyes. This is much easier and the bully won’t know the difference.
Mouth- Pursing of the Mouth or the one-Sided Upper-Lip Raise.
There are many expressions bullies use with their mouths. One of which is, The One-Sided Upper-Lip Raise.
Coupled with a glare, people raise one side of their upper lip to convey contempt or disgust. Therefore, return the sentiment and the bully will likely stop.
Again, the trick is to maintain your return glare until the bully breaks eye contact and goes away.
Thinned or Pursed Lips are a sign of hostility. Again, return the sentiment.
Snarling and baring of the teeth. This also conveys hostility. As always mirror the bullies- return the expression but be prepared.
Non Verbal Bullying Examples
Chin- The Jutted Chin.
The bully tilts the head back and juts his chin forward all for the purpose of looking down his nose at you. When the bully does this, he is either challenging you, trying to intimidate you, or he truly thinks he’s superior.
Therefore, you must return the look and the bully will likely back down.
Neck- The Exposed Neck.
The bully will expose and lengthen the neck to challenge you. People do this to show that they aren’t afraid of the person in front of them and can hold their own if necessary.
Also, bullies do it to make themselves appear taller and to intimidate anyone in their way. As with the other cues of hostility and contempt, reflect the gesture back to the bully and they’ll likely go on about their business .
Shoulders- The Shoulder Throw.
Bullies will often throw their shoulders back to convey confidence and power.
Therefore, if you want to appear confident, never slouch the shoulders. Always stand up straight, tall, and with your shoulders back.
Non Verbal Bullying
Chest- The Puffed-Out Chest.
The bully’s chest puffs outward toward the target. The chest fills with extra air in preparation for a possible fight.
Again, this is not only done to make the bully look bigger and to intimate his opponent but also a sign of a coming physical attack. Therefore, don’t back down.
Backing down will only show the bully that you’re afraid and they won’t stop bullying you. Instead, be prepared to defend yourself. Stand tall, and change to a fighting stance.
Arms- Akimbo.
The arms of a bully are often akimbo (elbows out, hands on hips, thumbs forward). This makes the bully appear bigger and more powerful. Also, bullies use this posture to intimidate any opponent and show power and superiority.
To ward them off, mirror their posture back to them. Stand with power, and send the message that you won’t be a victim.
Crossed Arms.
When coupled with the jutted chin, bullies will also cross their arms anytime they’re facing someone. Crossed arms are not only a sign of superiority and power, they are also considered closed body language.
Why, because when a bully crosses his arms when facing their opponent, they are “closed” to anything the other person has to say.
However, vote that victims will also cross their arms in intimidation when confronted by a bully. The difference is that they cross their arms to avoid a possible attack to the torso or they may throw their hands and arms in front of the face and neck.
Also, instead of using the jutted chin, a victim will lower the head, hide the neck, and slouch. This is where paying attention to clustered body language comes in.
Therefore, to keep bullies away, never slouch, lower the head nor hide the neck. Always look confident!
Again, mirror the same body language back to the bully to keep from looking afraid. This will likely make the bully think twice.
More Non Verbal Bullying Examples
Hands- The Clenching Fists.
The bully will often clench their fists when they want to physically attack their opponent. Always see this as a sign the person wants to harm you and be ready in case they do.
Mid-Section- The Crotch Expose.
This is done mostly by boys and men. Although it is a sign of sexual interest in a potential mate, it can also be used to intimidate and for dominance and power.
Trust me. You’ll know the difference.
If you are a male victim, take a power pose and mirror the bully. If you are female and this is used by a male bully for intimidation, either stand facing the bully with your feet apart and hands on your hips.
Then challenge him with a glare or you can give him a dismissive look and walk away.
Legs- Legs Apart.
Most bullies stand with their feet shoulder-width apart to appear bigger and more powerful. Confident people also stand this way.
Therefore, if you want to appear confident and ward off bullies, this is how you should stand.
Non Verbal Bullying
The Dominant Leg Back-step.
This is when the bully steps back with their dominant leg. Boxers in the ring do this just before putting up their dukes!
If you see the bully step back with one leg, either get clear or be prepared to fight!
Feet- The Toe Point.
Again, you must pay attention to the whole body to get an accurate reading. The toes always point to where the person wants to go. If a person likes you and enjoys your company, their toes will always point in your direction.
In contrast, if the person doesn’t like you or is afraid of you, they will want to get away from you and their toes will always point away from you.
However, if a bully wants to attack you, their toes will also point in your direction. You’ll know the difference by the other cues their body will give you. Moreover, you’ll know the subtle non verbal tactics they use as well.
This post was all about non verbal bullying Examples and used different body parts to give you all the body language so that you can spot hostility and be ready to stand up to bullies.
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