‘Want to know how to protect yourself from people with negative energy? Here’s all the life-changing information you need to know about.
You can feel the energy others around you put out, especially if it’s bad energy. Negative energy is contagious and those with it can decide whether we have a bad day or a good day. Thankfully, there are ways you can shield yourself from them.
Therefore, in this post, you will learn all about people with negative energy and how to protect your own energy from their toxicity.
Once you learn all about this important information, you will be better able to avoid toxic people and the bad energy they put out.
This post is all about people with negative energy and how to avoid letting them suck you into their doldrums.
People with Negative Energy
These kinds of people are everywhere. They’re in our workplaces, schools, churches and neighborhoods. Sadly, they can even live in our homes. Here’s how you avoid such people and keep them from dogging your mood and killing your vibe.
1. Pay Close Attention to Others’ Energy
I’ll start with a personal story. During the six years I endured bullying, I would put up on the vibes of most others at school.
The energy of most of my classmates and a few teachers was bad. However, being a teenager, I knew squat about psychic energy and vibrations.
Back then, no one ever talked about those things. Also, there weren’t many books written on the subject. Not like there are today.
You only heard and read about that gut feeling. Another name for it was the sixth sense. It is this instinct that is triggered by the energy or vibrations the people around us put out.
When I would pick up on the yucky energy my classmates exuded, I would mistake my gut feeling for being overly suspicious. That little voice inside my head would admonish me. It would tell me, “Aw, C’mon! You don’t know that person. Give them a chance.”
Therefore, I would give into that voice. I caved in and gave people chances. However, I ended up paying dearly for it.
Always pay attention to the energy others put out. If a person puts out bad energy, you will feel it in your gut. So, don’t ignore it! Get away from them fast!
2. People with Negative Energy:
Trust your gut instinct.
Self-doubt is a tricky animal. It convinces you to go against your God-given instincts. So, you ignore your innate gut feeling.
In that, you ignore the bad energy you feel when you’re around unsavory people. That’s when you open the door and let evil and nefarious people walk into your life.
If you ignore your gut long enough, you eventually lose the ability to recognize bad energy when you feel it.
‘You see? The ability to pick up on energy is like your muscles. You must exercise it to make it stronger. In other words, if you don’t use it, you lose it!
Your God-given gut instinct is the last thing that you want to atrophy. In this mixed-up world, you cannot afford for it to weaken.
Therefore, trust your gut. Especially if you are a target of bullying! Moreover, never allow others to convince you that you’re a mental case for following your intuition.
If ever you pick up bad energy from the people around you, you must get away from them, if possible. So, don’t walk. Run!
Minding your Own Energy Output
Just the same, you should mind your own energy. Bullies are experts at picking up on other’s energy and they trust their instincts.
In fact, they never even question them. Why do you think bullies are able to weed through large crowds and pick out potential targets with such accuracy?
For example, if you’re a self-conscious and nervous person, you will put out that kind of energy. If you have low self-esteem, your energy will match that.
Therefore, bullies will pick up on it. And, make no mistake, they’ll milk it for all it’s worth!
If nothing else, understand this. Energy never lies! Vibrations never lie! You may be able to talk a good game and be a fine actor. However, people will sense that you’re faking it.
Why? Because your energy will give you away every time!
That’s why it’s so important that you exude confident energy. This is not to say that you still won’t become a target of bullies. However, you will greatly lesson your chances of it.
Know that you have more control over your energy than you realize.
People with Negative Energy:
So, how do you control your energy?
You have the ability to control your emotions and moods. But! How do you do it? Here are several ways.
Listen to positive music
This means opting for upbeat dance music instead of emo rock. You should also listen to songs about dancing or about celebrating and having a good time.
Never listen to songs about negative things. These songs include those about being cheated on by a lover. Songs about violence and ones that bash women are also no-nos.
Also, don’t listen to those about suicide or murder. Remember. You want to listen to songs that uplift your mood, not those that bring you down.
Positive affirmations
Make positive affirmations. This means making positive “I am” statements. Moreover, remind yourself, every day, of your strengths and good qualities only. And do it loudly.
Even if you must look at yourself in the mirror while making these statements. Do it.
Watch a good comedy but no dark comedies.
Watch one that is fun. Do this to make yourself laugh because laughter always drives away a crappy mood.
People with Negative Energy:
Surround yourself with positive people who lift you up.
That means staying away from bullies and abusers, people who complain, put you down, or bring you drama. Stay away from anyone who puts you in a foul mood.
Exercise!
Not only is it healthy, but it releases endorphins and makes you feel accomplished.
Focus on everything positive. It won’t be easy and may even feel unnatural at first. However, keep it up and it will get easier with time.
It will begin to feel like second nature once you’ve practiced it long enough.
Remember that energy never lies. You must pay attention to the energy of the people around us and trust your instincts. Moreover, you must also make sure that you, yourself, are putting out positive energy.
3. Listen to Your Gut instinct.
At times in your life, you’ll meet and be around certain people. Your inner alarm will warn you about them.
You may not be able to explain the feeling you get. The only way to describe that gut feeling is that you’ll sense that something is “off” about the people around you.
and I would get a sinking, creepy feeling in the pit of my stomach. I could literally feel the bad vibes that seemed to pour fourth from these people.
However, when you’re young, you’ll often mistake this feeling for paranoia and ignore it. This is something that a whopping majority of bullying victims do.
And it’ll prove to be to your disappointment every time! But if you listen to your gut and avoid these people, you’ll save yourself a truckload of heartache.
God gave you your gut instinct for a reason. Anytime you get a bad feeling in your gut about someone, you’re picking up on their energy.
Moreover, if you pay close attention to it, you’ll know when someone means you no good. And you’ll know when someone is about to hurt you.
4. People with Negative Energy:
Let your instinct guide you.
If you listen to your instincts, you’ll be able to make good choices. On the other hand, you’ll only make poor decisions if you ignore it.
Moreover, you’ll become a very mean and vicious person just to keep people away. As a result, you just might repel the people who have your best interests at heart.
You’ll run off genuine people who would otherwise become your friends. And you’ll miss out on opportunities for friendship.
Why? Because you’ll get to where you won’t trust anyone.
If you don’t trust yourself, you won’t trust anyone else either.
Trusting your gut feeling means trusting yourself. Period.
Lack of trust comes from not knowing how to listen to and trust your gut. Therefore, you think it’s much safer to put up a barrier and keep everyone out.
I realize how scary it is to begin relying on your feelings. Being bullied can very easily cause you not to believe in yourself and your own abilities.
Also, it can enable you to trust your own innate intuition if you let it. As a result, bullies will completely zap you of your sense of who is for real and who is fake.
Bullying causes you to lose your ability to avoid dangerous people. Why? Because they brainwash you into ignoring what you feel.
People with negative energy:
Your Gut Feeling is never wrong.
It helps you identify people with negative energy. In fact, you’ll feel, deep down in your gut, the nasty vibes they exude. Therefore, always listen to your gut feeling because it is never wrong.
And, anyone something about another person feels bad, get rid of them!
Don’t ignore your gut feeling. Never overlook that sinking feeling in your stomach because it could save you from so much trouble. It could even save your life!
Realize that you have more power than you think. It’s up to you to listen to what your gut is trying to tell you and act on it.
No one else can do it for you. You owe it to yourself to avoid anyone who gives you a creepy vibe.
This post is all about how to pick up on people with negative energy so that you can protect yourself from trouble down the road.
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