Female-on-male bullying is something people rarely discuss. Therefore, want to know all about it so that you can recognize it when it happens. Here’s everything you need to know.
It’s not something we talk about. However, female-on-male bullying happens more than we know. Therefore, in this post, you will learn all about it so that you can recognize it when it happens.
Once you learn all about it, you will be able to call it out and stand up to it if you are a male who a female bullies.
This post is all about female-on-male bullying so that we can address the problem instead of burying it.
Female-on-Male Bullying
Here’s a reason why I believe that the term “toxic masculinity” is bogus.
Many times, you have a situation that most people ignore and almost no one talks about. And that is female bullying against male targets, and why society gives male targets a bum rap.
I cannot count the stories I’ve both read and heard about males being abused by vicious females. Boys and young men, who, under normal circumstances, are kind and caring but get pushed too far by their female tormentors.
And when they finally get enough of it, they strike back to defend themselves.
Females who Put Themselves in a Man’s Place.
Unfortunately, after suffering bullying for so long, the pressure builds to a breaking point. The poor guy finally decides that enough is enough and hits the girl back after she hits him first. As a result, HE gets blamed simply because he is male.
The girl knows very well that society protects females due to the still widely-held belief that females are the weaker sex. Therefore, she uses it to her own advantage by playing the “woman card” and feigning victimhood. And she completes the act with crocodile tears, rationalization, and projecting blame onto her victim.
The conniving and cunning female also deceives by acting sweet and innocent in the presence of the right people. She is silver-tongued. She is a pro at spinning a convincing story to deceive authority while demonizing her male target, all to avoid being held responsible.
The male target is actually a great guy with good morals, values, and ethics. However, to bystanders and the authorities, he is just another punk who goes around beating up on girls.
Female-on-Male Bullying:
The Catch-22
So, he ends up either suspended/expelled from school or arrested and charged with a crime, while his female bully looks on with a smirk of gratification. She then escapes punishment and goes on to select yet another male victim. Thus, the cycle continues.
However, let’s say that the young man doesn’t hit her back. He only restrains her to protect himself; he will still be dehumanized and punished because he laid hands on her.
Yes. You read this correctly. If someone physically attacks you and you restrain them, you can STILL go to jail. It will be as if you delivered the first punch because your hands were touching the person. It is impossible to restrain anyone without touching them.
This is just a sad example of how completely backward the rules and laws in this country really are.
The Second Catch 22
Let’s say that a young man is being bullied relentlessly at school by a girl or a group of girls. The girls have harassed this boy for many years. And, during this time, he is the bigger person and walks away instead of fighting back.
The other boys also laugh at him and make fun of him, calling him a wimp because he refuses to “hit a girl.” They feminize him by calling him names, such as “wuss”, “pussy”, “bitch-boy”, to attack him and strip away his masculinity.
And when the guy does the wise thing and reports the bullying, they tell him to “man up” or “toughen up.” And the other boys only shame him for being a “whiner”, “crybaby,” or “tattle tale”.
Female-on-Male Bullying:
What happens when being the bigger person doesn’t work?
Then, the young boy finally gets sick of the mistreatment, and walking away doesn’t work. This is what happens. He snaps at one of the girls and batters her until her lip and nose are bleeding. Now, all hell breaks loose!
Why? Because he goes from being labeled a wimp to being viewed as a punk who gets his jollies by beating up on females. Therefore, he can’t win no matter what he does!
So, authority members suspend, expel, or arrest him for assault and battery. Also, the other boys now want to jump him because he hit a girl.
As a result, the targeted guy, although a victim, is now marginalized by the system, which is supposed to protect him. But what other recourse does he have after he’s tried everything to defend himself and make the harassment stop?
The Moral Decline in Females.
My purpose is to open a few eyes and let society know that girls do sometimes bully boys. Women bully more and more men. Females are more prone to violence today than ever before in history, due to the significant moral decline of girls.
However, understand that this article does not apply to male bullies, who go around physically or psychologically harming females. It applies only to innocent male victims, who only want to be left in peace and live an everyday life like everyone else.
If two men are at odds with each other and resort to fisticuffs, they usually end up later patching things up. And they will go somewhere to have a beer together. Not so with women.
If two women get into an altercation, they are likely to hold onto their hatred. A woman is like a dog with a bone. She will cling tightly to her grudge against her rival until the heavens come crashing down.
Female-on-Male Bullying:
Male Victims Have it the Worst.
I’m a woman myself, and I know firsthand that when it comes to evil, women and girls can be the most vicious of the sexes! In most cases of bullying, victims who are male get a bum rap! We must bring this to light!
It’s high time that we wise up to these females and expose their misdeeds to as many people as possible. Not all girls are made of sugar, spice, and everything nice.
Female bullies are sneakier. They’re better at going undetected than male bullies. Granted, there are always exceptions, but this is true for the most part.
Male bullies lean more toward outward physical bullying, and females lean more toward bullying of the psychological variety.
Female Bullies:
Most females are passive-aggressive and commit much of their bullying on a psychological level. Again, thanks to radical feminism and the moral decline in today’s young girls and women, physical assaults perpetrated by females are increasing at an alarming rate.
Females bully by Dividing and Conquering—attacking the targets’ relationships. Girls and women use smear campaigns, gossip, rumors, and witch hunts. These tactics are all designed to turn everyone against the victim.
Girls and women also use projection. In other words, they all project their own shortcomings onto their victim. Bullies do have flaws, and their greatest fear is you exposing them. Projection is the best way to hide their own imperfections.
Female bullies will use distraction. They distract others’ attention away from their provocation onto the victim’s reaction to it.
Female-on-Male Bullying:
Psychological v/s Physical Bullying
Psychological bullying includes exclusion, dirty looks, taunts, insults, rumors, and lies. Also, it can consist of thievery, invasion of the target’s privacy, and destruction of the target’s property and relationships.
If this does not work, they may then resort to violence, although not as often as male bullies. If females want to cause bodily harm to their target, they are more likely to persuade someone else to do the violence for them.
They may send a male friend or a bigger and tougher female friend to catch the target alone and physically assault them. Moreover, they get them to comply by offering incentives.
These girls may offer illicit sex to their male friends to get them to do what they want. On the other hand, they may offer a tougher female friend inclusion in their clique and the chance to climb the social ladder.
These bullies may also offer money.
Female-on-Male Bullying:
Female bullies love to tear down your relationships.
By instinct, females are nurturers. Nature has hardwired girls and women to maintain relationships, especially family and romantic ones. Many young girls plan to get married eventually and have families of their own.
Thus, female bullies aim to sabotage the victim’s relationships. Again, most girls and women dream of finding a mate and having children from a young age.
Why? Because they have an instinct to nurture. Females are usually the family’s caretakers and homekeepers.
Slut-Shaming
Therefore, it should not be any surprise that female bullies are notorious for calling their targets names like ‘whore’, ‘slut’, ‘tramp’, ‘floozy’, and other names that attack femininity and virtues.
Moreover, anytime females call another young lady one of these names, there is an even deeper meaning behind it. Therefore, here’s the hidden meaning.
It’s that you are not marriageable. Female bullies deem you unworthy of a mate or children, and you are not considered to be a woman.
Female-on-Male Bullies:
Male bullies:
Because nature has hardwired most males to be hunters and gatherers, guys tend to be more physical. And why not? Back during prehistoric times, males had to hunt and bring home the food to feed their families.
Often, they had to fight off wild animals and men from other groups to survive. Although there are exceptions, males are more likely to use physical aggression.
People expect young men to be strong and tough…to display manhood. Therefore, if the target is another male, the boy bully will not only use his fists, but will also try to feminize their target by repetitively emasculating him.
In closing
If females bully a male victim, it’s even worse for that victim. Again, if he defends himself, society will automatically accuse him of being the aggressor. If he walks away from her, society will accuse him of being a weakling.
Therefore, this puts male victims in a trap that they can’t escape from.
This post was all about male-on-female bullying so that you can learn all about the unique effects and circumstances that male victims suffer.
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