Seeing that lovely photo of you lately on your blog Cherie it occurs to me why you were bullied, they were jealous because you are so beautiful.. hugs and love. <3
Living in total isolation, never being able to go out, taught me to prefer and enjoy my own company. Until my darling angel of a wife gets home in the evenings, it’s like that Joan Armatrading song Me, Myself, I. Formerly a buzzy socialite, I have come to appreciate all the me-time. I came to prefer my own company, as it rules out nayhsayers, idiots and fools.
This is awesome! It shows that you are a very healthy-minded person and you stand out! Because most people can’t stand their own company. You show immense strength! Sending you and your wife lots of love and hugs! ππ€
Thanks for the earlier compliment. That really went home to the heart in a good way. After having been berated and belittled by an idiotic Ph D endowed honourable Member of Parliament, on account of having lost some of my executive functions after 12 strokes, it took me a year to regain any useful self-esteem. So thank you for injecting concrete where needed.
You’re most welcome. I’m so sorry that the PhD treated you so horrifically. It sounds like he was in the wrong profession and had no business working with stroke patients. Sadly, some doctors let their degrees go to their heads and use their patients to wield power over. I’m so glad you were able to take back your self-esteem and reclaim your power.
I thought it was more prudent to reinforce myself instead of ruining him, which was well within my rights and abilities. Also, law is on my side. Zeitgeist was against him. But let God bully the bully while I watch another golden sunset.
What a nice, short, and sweet reminder for our day Cherie! Thanks for sharing my friend!!! Now, I’m going to go have a cup of tea with myself…you know…so I can enjoy my company!!! πβπ€
And you too my dear friend. As Candi Staton sang, “Young hearts, to yourself be true, don’t be no fool when love really don’t love you!” Now go on and bask in your greatness too girlie!!! ππΌπ₯°π₯πΊπ¦π
Time flies when Iβm alone. I treat myself better because I can. Even a meal-for-one is prepared with love. I use my favorite linens, dinnerware, and placemats. Antique shops are filled with vintage pieces that were βsavedβ for company. ππΈπ
people never guess i am an introvert- but i am a people pleaser and hate to see anyone from students to strangers feel unwelcomed or awkward- so i put myself out there! But i am an introvert who also know that i needs to recharge my levels at the end of a day to motor onto the next. but i love downtime to regroup and refresh. a little online trekking, reading, meditating, cooking or seista-ing in the sunshine when it decides to return! lol Essential self care!ππ
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You are the person you have to live with with all your life…you are your soulmate
Bingo, Jim! π―π―
I do!
Thats awesome, Rajiv! You got the right attitude! π
Beautiful quote! Well said!
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Seeing that lovely photo of you lately on your blog Cherie it occurs to me why you were bullied, they were jealous because you are so beautiful.. hugs and love. <3
Awww Thank you, how sweet of you! π The beach photo isn’t me though. It’s a stock photo. But again, thank you so much. π
No it was the head shot but maybe it was at the beach?
Awww! Thank you! π
I really do enjoy my own company – alone, but never lonely
Absolutely, Sheree! π― And it shows that you are a healthy person and I admire that!
Thank you Cherie
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Living in total isolation, never being able to go out, taught me to prefer and enjoy my own company. Until my darling angel of a wife gets home in the evenings, it’s like that Joan Armatrading song Me, Myself, I. Formerly a buzzy socialite, I have come to appreciate all the me-time. I came to prefer my own company, as it rules out nayhsayers, idiots and fools.
Disability has its virtues indeed.
This is awesome! It shows that you are a very healthy-minded person and you stand out! Because most people can’t stand their own company. You show immense strength! Sending you and your wife lots of love and hugs! ππ€
Aww thanks, I was a strong baby. I slapped the doctor for slapping me, then ran away. And I pushed my own pram ππππ
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Thanks for the earlier compliment. That really went home to the heart in a good way. After having been berated and belittled by an idiotic Ph D endowed honourable Member of Parliament, on account of having lost some of my executive functions after 12 strokes, it took me a year to regain any useful self-esteem. So thank you for injecting concrete where needed.
You’re most welcome. I’m so sorry that the PhD treated you so horrifically. It sounds like he was in the wrong profession and had no business working with stroke patients. Sadly, some doctors let their degrees go to their heads and use their patients to wield power over. I’m so glad you were able to take back your self-esteem and reclaim your power.
He is a politician and nothing medical, and overstepped his boundaries. It is Grace that he still has his political career.
Gotcha! But you still grabbed back your power and that’s a great thing!
I thought it was more prudent to reinforce myself instead of ruining him, which was well within my rights and abilities. Also, law is on my side. Zeitgeist was against him. But let God bully the bully while I watch another golden sunset.
Absolutely! The key is to focus on you and your needs and you’re doing that! π―π
Yes, one cannot do the Heal2Hate thing, right? π±π€
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I had all of 12 strokes, the last 4 in the basal ganglia, affecting me badly
My heart goes out to you. π You’re in my prayers!
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Some people forget how interesting they are as soon as they’re on their own.
Absolutely! π― You said that perfectly, Indigo!
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Goodness I do that all the time! Iβm home with cat ,dog, and no humans until 7 pm and by 8 Iβm on my own again!
That’s awesome! β€οΈ It shows that you’re a healthy person. Just be sure not to totally isolate yourself.
I do I walk in my complex and meet and greet peopleβ¦β€οΈ
That’s great! You’re doing the right thing for yourself! π―π
I know that for introverts alone time is a blessing but as for extroverts…π€ Eish! I don’t know!
True. However, just don’t totally isolate yourself. Alone time is healthy but so is a little human interaction. π
Yeah! People need to be able to differentiate between alone time and social awkwardness…
Exactly! π― There is a happy middle. π
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My dual personality! Total extravert who loves to be alone. I love people but those moments with me – aaah! So precious.
Bingo! You couldn’t have said that better! π―π―π
What a nice, short, and sweet reminder for our day Cherie! Thanks for sharing my friend!!! Now, I’m going to go have a cup of tea with myself…you know…so I can enjoy my company!!! πβπ€
You go, girl! Have that tea and bask in your awesomeness! ππ
And you too my dear friend. As Candi Staton sang, “Young hearts, to yourself be true, don’t be no fool when love really don’t love you!” Now go on and bask in your greatness too girlie!!! ππΌπ₯°π₯πΊπ¦π
Lobe that song, girl! And I sure will! I’m gonna roll in it! Hee-hee-hee! ππππ·ππ§Ό Love ya, girl! ππ€
Love ya more!!! π€ππ
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Time flies when Iβm alone. I treat myself better because I can. Even a meal-for-one is prepared with love. I use my favorite linens, dinnerware, and placemats. Antique shops are filled with vintage pieces that were βsavedβ for company. ππΈπ
Absolutely, Gail! π―Now that’s the way to treat yourself!
people never guess i am an introvert- but i am a people pleaser and hate to see anyone from students to strangers feel unwelcomed or awkward- so i put myself out there! But i am an introvert who also know that i needs to recharge my levels at the end of a day to motor onto the next. but i love downtime to regroup and refresh. a little online trekking, reading, meditating, cooking or seista-ing in the sunshine when it decides to return! lol Essential self care!ππ
Sounds like you’re doing a great job in ensuring that your needs get met too, Kim! I’m so proud of you! Keep up the TLC! ππ
I think that enjoying my own company is one of my most favorite things to do! Thereβs nothing better than to take a date with myself π₯°
It’s awesome, isn’t it? πππΊ
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You’re very welcome! π