“If you’re a target of bullying, they don’t bully you because there’s anything wrong with you. They don’t bully you because of anything you’ve done wrong. No. They bully you because they perceive you to be the person who has the least power and, therefore, the least likely to be able to defend yourself. That’s why they bully you. It’s not about who’s defective and needs to be fixed. It’s not about who’s evil and needs to be punished. It’s about who has the least power. Always.”
– Cherie White –
Poignant
Thank you. 😊😎
Wonder how they take it when they perceive their target as weak, only to find that he/she throws, in turn, an unexpected, powerful blow? LOL.
Hahahaha! They’re usually stunned and it’s those types who never even look at you again! 🤣😂🤣😂😜😜😜
LOL…. surpriseeee! Lol
You got that right! 😂🤣😂🤣
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Wow. Powerful revelation.
Thank you so much. ❤
Bullying is also about the bullier feeling intimidated by the victim. Or it’s jealousy, sometimes it’s because your different, like me with red hair. Bullied all 12 years of school. It was horrible.
My heart goes out to you, sweetie! I feel your pain because I was there. Know that it was the bullies who had the issues, not you. And know that you aren’t alone. 💖💐🌹
Cherie white may God heal all your wounds and erase any pain you carry, I learned that hurt people hurt people. Thank you for lifting me, I am not alone. And neither are you. Courageous post and I applaud you.💯❤️🤗🙏
Thank you so much. 💖💐🌹😊🤗
So true. . Its what makes it all so much more toxic.
We need to remember that the weakest link is the bully. Never live as an island, and the bully just might look for another to conquer.
Absolutely true, Buckeye! 💯🎯 Strength is in numbers. Make Friends and allies and the bullies won’t bother. 🙂