Sadly, bullies successfully convince targets that they must depend on them for something. It’s true.
“Depend on bullies? For what?” You may ask.
For acceptance and approval. For the ability to make friends and establish relationships. Yes, many targets of bullying have been hoodwinked into thinking that they should depend on bullies to have these things. This is how bullies keep targets essentially begging for it- by dangling carrots of the possibilities of having them. And the reasons why bullies do this is to keep their targets under their control and to force them to do what they want them to do.
Think about it. Domestic abusers, who are also bullies, do basically the same to their partners- keep them dependent in order to keep control of them. Only domestic abusers keep their partners dependent mostly on financial resources by keeping a tight grip on any money that come into the household.
Domestic abusers also close their partners off from any job opportunities and cutting them off from their friends and family who may see through them and convince their partner to leave.
Abuse is abuse, whether it comes in the form of bullying or domestic violence and psychological manipulation.
Oh! But wait!
Socialist and Communist governments (again, also bullies) always do this to their peoples- make and keep them dependent on them to keep control of them, their behavior, and their thoughts. These tyrannical governments keep their citizenry dependent by controlling all the resources- food, the water supply, energy distribution, income and wealth distribution.
Because, if you can keep someone dependent, you can make the rules and tell them what they can and cannot do. Even worse, you can force them to put up with horrible conditions and treatment- things that they wouldn’t, under normal circumstances, tolerate. You can control every aspect of a person’s life if you can make them depend on you for their very survival!
When bullies do this, they keep you afraid to be your own person, to exercise your autonomy, speak freely, be creative, and to flourish. They keep your fearful of standing up to them, calling them out of their atrocious behavior and abuse, and of asserting your God-given right not to be controlled and abused.
Understand that bullies, domestic abusers, and oppressive governments/regimes have the same in common- to control everyone and destroy their targets. It’s how they keep everyone dependent and obligated.
Realize that in the minds of bullies, other people are only there for their convenience, their purpose, and their agenda. Nothing more!
With knowledge comes power!
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Well said, it’s true that bullies, domestic abusers and tyrannical governments act in this despicable way. However, not all Socialist governments are oppressive. The Scandinavian countries are all considered socialist in some form but none are oppressive. I can personally vouch for Norway because my future daughter in law hails from there.
Congratulations to your son on his engagement! 🥂🍾
Thank you but actually, it was my daughter who got engaged to the Norwegian lass.
Ooh, I’m so sorry. Congratulations to your daughter. ❤
Please forgive the mistake.
Ah, no worries, already forgiven.
Thank you so much. 🤗
Absolutely, this post is reflected in today’s world.. tyranny of government..
Sadly, yes. 😢
Exactly, Amber! I can’t believe people have forgotten history! Ugghh!
They are trying to wipe out history, universities brainwashing students.. you know the rest..
Absolutely they are. It’s terrible! It’s all the products of Global Communism trying to take over. But we’re not bending so easily. They’re having to work harder than they thought they would.
Yes, I pray more wake up or else more of our freedoms will be taken away.. Pivotal time in history..
Absolutely! Times I never thought I’d see in my lifetime. I miss the 70s, 80s, and 90s! I wish it was still 19-something! 😪
Me too, nothing will be the same again.. the old world is gone..
I grew up during some awesome times!
I only had a brief time of “freedom”, I guess we have to treasure the moments we had..
That’s right. They may take our freedoms but they’ll never take away our awesome memories of them! They’ll never take away the fact that we once tasted freedom! I think I’ll write a post about that in the future!
Absolutely Cherie, they can never take those away unless they put some memory wipe A.I inside us like they are now doing..
No way I’m taking that vaccine! I saw a video from London where Daz Nez was leading a group of anti vaxxers and they were singing and chanting “stick your New World Order up your arse.” I think I.posted it a month or so ago. I’m with Daz Nez!
What’s the situation like where you are? Yes, sounds like a great post.
The States are fighting back. Texas, Mississippi, South Dakota, Missouri, Arkansas, Florida, Oklahoma, (and soon Tennessee) are standing against the Executive Orders of The Federal Government. The good thing is that States have Popular Sovereignty and that means if Orders are not sensible, the States do not have to follow them. States are independent entities within an independent country.
Very very good to hear, may this continue.. The UK is a tyrannical authoritarian state now, the police are brutal and everything is insane..
My heart goes out to you all. From what I hear, the Globalists are wanting Communism all over the world now. So people won’t have anywhere to go except a dessert island somewhere.
We’re fighting and so far, we’re winning, also our sorry excuse for Media would tell you otherwise.
Hmm.. yes absolutely. 😉👏👏
Check this out and let me know what you think: https://principia-scientific.com/modernas-covid-injection-is-an-operating-system-is-this-transhumanism/
I believe it is, Amber! That’s why I wouldn’t advise anyone to vaccinate no matter who made the vaccine. It’s not worth the chance!
Absolutely Cherie. 😘
Yes, especially the part about tyrannical governments.