Why Targets of Bullying Should Leave The Town They’re Bullied In

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“A prophet is honored everywhere except in his own hometown and among his relatives and his own family.” – Mark 6:4

You want to live bully-free. You long for people to give you space and the chance to relax, be yourself, and live a rewarding and meaningful life. You want opportunities to flow into your life and to live by your own standards. If you are bullied, you probably have the desire to reinvent yourself and attract love and respect.

Unfortunately, to do this, you will have to leave town if you were bullied in school. The reason is that if you don’t move, you will always be known as that “loser,” that “whore”, that “lowlife,” “crazy,” or whatever label people stuck you with in high school, and no one will give you a chance no matter what.

The girl with a suitcase

You will always be known for being the kid who was bullied by everyone- known for being “Everybody’s b!&$#” and you will more than likely continue to be targeted long after graduation, especially if you’re in a small town or rural area.

However, in a new geological area, you will be the new kid in town- that new kid who is mysterious, intriguing, and beguiling! You will be the person everyone is anxious to meet because they feel that you’re full of hope and promise. In a new town, you can reinvent and redefine yourself. You can rewrite your own story and give a stellar first impression, then let it speak for itself.

As a result, you will be successful at anything and attract endless opportunities for love, friendship, and advancement.

But back in the old town, you’re the kid who was desperate for attention. Any success you have will only be viewed as another ploy to show off and impress others, which will cause you to become a target as an adult. In contrast, any failure will be looked at by others as an “I told you so” opportunity and confirmation to them that you really are a loser.

In a new town, your value comes from what you put out. You are judged by the fruit you bear, whereas, in the old town, you are judged by who you were in school. You are judged solely by your reputation, which was ruined in school.

Open door on long empty asphalt road, highway towards sun. Hope, success, new way concepts etc.

In a town where you were bullied, nobody will be interested in how much you’ve grown and changed as a person. Others do not want to hear about any successes you’ve enjoyed or accomplishments you’ve made because it would only force them to consider that maybe you’re not such a bad person after all and quiet their own judgment of you. And because no one wants to be wrong about anything, they’ll only dig their heels in and double-down on their judgments and attitudes toward you.

It’s next to impossible to discover your true potential when others define you by who they perceive you to be. Because their perceptions of you will always be negative, and they will do everything they can to keep you in your place. It’s a box you will never be able to get out of no matter what. However, when you move to a new environment, you are more likely to advance in anything. You’re more likely to get the breakthrough you’ve for so long-awaited.

You could become an expert at something later in life, and people would respect you for it anywhere else, but if you took that expertise to the town you were bullied in, very few would be impressed. Move to a new locale and show what you know, then you’ll have notoriety no matter what.

But more importantly than any of the above reasons, move because your peace, your happiness, and your sanity depend on it. Why would you stay where every move you make is constantly watched and you’re judge and marginalized?

Why stay where you risk having to suffer more bullying in the future and where you’ll more than likely only get bullied out of every job you get, harassed at the supermarket, or jumped in the parking lot outside the local Dairy Queen?

You can always return a few years later after you’ve built your confidence and social and creative portfolios, but don’t be surprised if you notice all the things that suck about the old town, one of which will be the reception you get from the people there. Another thing that will most likely disappoint you is that you will have had more life changes than any of the people who stayed, and they would only bore the crap out of you.

Hit the road concept, road – 3D rendering

So, get out of Dodge- fast! Go to a brand-new place and discover yourself! You want to get beyond the confines of your reputation, and the only way to do that is to pack your bags and get out of the town you were bullied in! It’s the only way you’ll become what you want to be and move up in the world! Once you do, you’ll have a level of respect, influence, safety, and best of all- freedom that you never would’ve achieved had you stayed in your hometown!

0 thoughts on “Why Targets of Bullying Should Leave The Town They’re Bullied In

  1. sudrakarma says:

    As soon as my daughter was old enough, she fled our hometown for some of the same reasons. She hated her high school experience because of the people she encountered. And it worked; she’s much more gregarious, independent, and adventurous when she changed the context of her life – buy not so far away we can’t visit her. 😊

    • cheriewhite says:

      This is not running, per se. This is going to a place were you can have peace in your life and not have to deal with jackasses who will make your life difficult. It’s called self-preservation and pursuing happiness and success. I refuse to stay in a place where I have to fight constantly with no let up. Bullies are known for being relentless. You can stay and fight, yes. But most of the time, they’ll keep coming back for more and after a while, it gets exhausting. Thank you.

  2. katiemiafrederick says:

    SMiles This Is Why i Am Visiting You Online Yet True i Didn’t have to
    Leave my Hometown to Escape

    Bullies Even Though one
    Tried to Convince A
    Boss Not to Hire
    me As He thought

    i was too Strange
    To Hire Another
    Option is To Have
    A “Napoleon Dynamite
    Skill” In Demand no one
    Else has Yes A Class in
    Computers “Bought me”
    A Menial Job As it Was
    1984 the Job Was Computerized
    And One Else There Knew Anything



    Note: The Revenge

    Of The Nerds Lives
    On Now We Are Trapped
    Avatars Forever Hehe in
    Their Systemizing Worlds

    True Though “Incels” Developed
    This Entire Avenue to Download
    Unlimited Pretty Birds At No
    Limits Of Access In Speed
    Or Variety Too Yes in This

    Way The Human Zoo

    Hasn’t Changed

    Much In 100,000
    Years Anyway As Far
    As i Know the Bully is
    Still Working i retired

    Early 13 Years Ago
    Cause i Was Good At

    Numbers And Big
    Four Wheel Drives,
    Boats, Campers, And

    A New Wife And Set
    Of Kids Every Five

    Years Didn’t Interest
    Me Again Wit Beats Mean 🤓

      • katiemiafrederick says:

        Thanks For
        The Inspiration
        Indeed Prophets
        Aren’t Accepted
        In Their Home of
        Tradition As They
        Expand Views of The
        Nature of God Since That
        Obviously Does Not Fit in
        The Cave They

        Must Dance
        And Sing Into
        Light In New Places
        With Open Souls Who
        Are Not Afraid of New Colors

        oF LiGHT/LoVE/God The Others

        Will “Unplug From Older Matrixes”

        When They Find The Courage

        Beauty And Wisdom


        Never Ending
        Never Landing
        Story LiGHT oF Love

        Is Meanwhile No More
        Crucifixions And Such



        Ban and Delete🌲

  3. 80smetalman says:

    One of my life’s biggest mistakes was to return to my home town when I left the marines. My mother kept telling me the area had changed, she was right, it was worse.

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