People Will Talk No Matter What

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But remember. It’s nothing personal!

And it’s a fact of life we need to accept. And the sooner you do, the better off you’ll be. are going to talk about you until the day you die. And it’s something that we all not only need to accept but be okay with if we’re ever going to grow as human beings.

And here’s another fun fact:
Everyone gets talked about, everyone! Even the best of us!

If wealthy celebrities and politicians get bashed and put down, you’re only fooling yourself if you think that you don’t or shouldn’t. But why should you care? Why should you give a crap what people say or think of you?

You really are worth it

During high school, everyone bullied me terribly and talked about me like a dog. It used to upset me. It used to make me angry or sad. I won’t lie, having people say horrible things about me, tell lies, and put me down? It hurt.

As an adult, I even worked around people talked trash about me. But I realized that most of them didn’t matter anyway.

They didn’t pay my bills.

They didn’t sign my paycheck every week.

They weren’t anyone I cared anything about.

I sometimes look back and ask myself, “Damn! Why did I ever concern myself with it? Those morons weren’t even on my level and weren’t worth two cents.”

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The point I’m making is that most people are a dime a dozen. They really are! And nine times out of ten, the reason they’re so busy squawking about others is that they’re bored with their own lives and have nothing better to do.

And the sooner you realize it, the sooner you’ll stop caring and the happier you’ll be. When you stop being so concerned, you’ll no longer be a slave to the approval of others, and you’ll set yourself free of any anxiety.

The only opinions you should place that kind of importance on are those of your God, your family, and your closest friends.

Anyone outside of that isn’t even an issue. the opinions of God, my family, and my closest friends are the only ones that matter. The rest is just a waste of energy and mind-space.







0 thoughts on “People Will Talk No Matter What

  1. coatofmanycolors22 says:

    I remember years ago there was a website about Julia Roberts created where some internet troll would post about Roberts almost every day and claim she was a terrible actress and claim she was unattractive. Say what? Pretty Woman, one of the most gorgeous people on the planet? And she is a great actress! But it may me realize anyone can be attacked and it made me also think about what type of miserable person would go out of their way to create a hate site about a person especially someone who as far as I know is a good person as well. You can’t let others stop you.

  2. JulieG says:

    I remember not too long ago I was called a racist by someone on Tumblr because I didn’t like a certain character in a movie … some people just cannot live an entire day without making someone feel bad. This type of person is not worth anyone’s time…

    • cheriewhite says:

      I’m so sorry you experienced this, Julie. You’re so right with your last point!

      And please accept my sincerest apologies for not seeing this comment much sooner. WP has been sending a lot of legitimate comments to my spam folder lately and I didn’t think to check it. I’m truly sorry.

        • cheriewhite says:

          Thank you so much for your thoughts, Lia.

          And please accept my sincerest apologies for not seeing this comment much sooner. WP has been sending a lot of legitimate comments to my spam folder lately and I didn’t think to check it. I’m truly sorry.

          • Lia says:

            Aw that is so kind! But please don’t worry! I know how it is… haven’t checked my own spam in a long while, there is a lot to do at home and online too, same as for everyone else. Sometimes I find a comment on an old post of mine (which I see because someone new likes the post), that I never saw at first at all… basically, it happens! I try to assume good intent on the part of another if they don’t answer — that is, *if* I notice or remember that they didn’t answer! Thanks so much for the sweet message though.

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